poisonwine Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 He's having a tough time dealing with his insecurities and it's making me depressed in a way too. It's like he's second guessing his feelings for me or if he wants to really be with me. His parents have a lot to do with it too because they are very judgemental. They will say things about me that will hurt his feelings because he really does care about me but, they don't support his decision to be with me. I told him today that I wanted to be with him, take things slow but, that doesn't give the choice to go and hide me. We dated for 2 years, recently broke up and go back together. Advice for me please?
apple OR orange Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Sounds like you are backing up his thinking "you want to date but take things slow". 99% of the time in the real world this is taken as "i dont want to be with you, i want to use you". So, i would like to hear what his parents are saying, are they on to something?
Author poisonwine Posted May 25, 2013 Author Posted May 25, 2013 It's nothing like that. We don't ever use one another just to be clear. His parents just don't like me and he feels like he's in the middle of the fence. I'm not proud of the fights we use to have, but, I'm willing to find out what I did maybe that irks them. It's just really hard and then again this could be all my insecurities and over thinking.
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