ThatGuy195 Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Girlfriend of 5 years broke it off 1 month ago, only gone NC for 2 weeks, wasnt as affectionate as i could have been at the end of the relationship, she ended it cause she didnt think we had the same life goals but we do, i just havent been showing it recently and i had been paying alot less attention to the relationship in the last couple of months so she stopped feeling loved and stoped loving in return, I think she still has feelings but doesnt think the relationship has a future. Im thinking of giving it another month of NC before i send a heartfelt apology for where i went wrong in the relationship and tell her im currently going to councelling to sort out my issues and maybe sending her either flowers to her work, or , Let her go, by passenger to show her how i feel about it, now im fairly set on the letter the other 2 im not so sure about it, everyone tells me the song is super gay, and not sure if the flowers is coming on too strong
TaraMaiden Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 The whole post is a bit strong.... How old are you both?
TaraMaiden Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Yup, I suspected as much.... I really don't know how to put this to you, but - she's run the course and has nothing left to give to this, and there's nothing left she wants to take from it. She's done. Finished. The familiarity has begun to eat at her, and it's gone stale and uninteresting. She's out. I suspect she left a while ago, but the habit of it became stronger than her desire to quit - however, things took a downward turn, and this gave her the impetus to end it. I really, really do suggest you take this on board and - leave well alone. If you back off, and leave her be, at one point in the future, she will approach you, neutrally, in the guise of friendship. Do not, under any circumstances, whatever you do, take that bait. It would be foolish and reckless of you to do so..... Read the No Contact Guide in my signature. The first post is a tried-and-tested working formula to follow when you are dumped. The remainder of the thread - well, it makes for educational reading. But this is fully cooked, out of the oven and done. 1
MrRightNow Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 I agree with TaraMaiden. The more you try and win her back, the further you'll push her away. If you maintain NC and move on with your life, there's a small chance she'll come back to you. Don't count on it though. People change a lot between the ages of 20 and 25. It most likely wasn't meant to be. Good luck, bro.
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