nocturne12 Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Ex and I have been broken up for 5 months. He asked asked me not contacting him at least 3 months, and I agreed and went NC. Thought ex starred contacting me after a month. It was annoying me for a while since the first contact from him after NC. But we started been closer again anyway, ex and I plan hanging out most of weekends this past a month. To be honest, I think I have not totally been over him, though at the same time, I am not wanting him back badly too. I am able to see our past relationship objectively and tell him what went wrong in the relationship without needing emotional. While a conversation, I told my ex that I loved him. I wanted to tell him because I had not expressed my love for him enough while I was in the relationship, which I guess was one of causes of the breakup. And made him to think he was worthless to me in the relationship. It was not true and I wanted to tell him that he was loved, and he was worth to me. When I told him that I loved him, he got really upset. He nervously touched his hair again and again while I was talking the feelings I had for him. And my ex suggested NC for long time because he thinks that I have false hope to get back with him. I didn't mention anything about getting back together, just told him that I loved him. Though his reaction was kind of extreme. I don't know if I should have told him that I loved him now.
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