Leigh 87 Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Should I delete all the pictures I have of my two dogs, and my exes two dogs, and one of his dogs had puppies too which I have pictures of. My dogs meant everything to me. I LOVED them. I have a dog free flat and I am moving away to a new town also, and I am not sure I can take my dogs; and even if I did take them, I am only moving for work and if I lost the job I would have to come back and then see my ex again due to having to return the dogs to his place. I live in a dog free flat here. Even if I was able to take my dogs with me, if I retuned I was have to contact my ex and say goodbye to my dogs all over again. ................................ I cannot bring myself to delete my beautiful dogs from the pictures in my phone, and also on facebook. I still love them very much. I do not ever go into the pictures on my phone to look at them or anything, as I know that would only upset me. ................................. Logically, I know that there is no use having the pictures seeing as I will not let myself look at them ANYWAY; and then one day I will be over my ex and I will have learnt to live happily without my beloved dogs. ................................. As long as I do not look at the pics, with I don't: is it okay to at least have SOME happy, wonderful memories from my past? I have deleted ALL PICTURES of my ex and returned ALL HIS THINGS. I had the best time of my life when I was with my dogs, they really remind me of a wonderful time in my life with them. There are better times ahead though and I wonder how it would feel to look back on these pictures one day when I am happily married or in love with the right guy, with a new dog?
SadPanda22 Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Hi Leigh, I am sorry to hear that you can't be with your dogs . I wouldn't delete the pictures of your dogs. They were your little buddies. I don't think that there is anything wrong with keeping pictures of them just because they are no longer living with you. I have pictures of my ex's dog on my computer. Also, you could put all the dog pics on a flash drive and delete them from everything else (if you don't want to view the pics but still want the security of knowing that they are there). Best of luck to you with your new job
Author Leigh 87 Posted May 25, 2013 Author Posted May 25, 2013 That's such a good idea :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:( I am crying a lot atm cos I miss them so much. The last time I saw my adorable blind dog, he growled at my ex: I was cuddling my dog on the bed and when my ex walked in the room my dog went GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I am really happy a lot of the time and my life is going so much better than when I had my ex.. Then I have moments where I burst out crying because I cannot handle being without my little dogs... I loved his two dogs like they were my own two, also... I cried the last time I held my dog; I knew it would be the last time I would possibly ever see him. My ex was like " aww don't cry bub, you will see them again" I'm like " No. This is it". Him: " why don't you even want to see your dogs that's crazy"
Author Leigh 87 Posted May 25, 2013 Author Posted May 25, 2013 The only way I will EVER be able to see my dogs again, is in this scenario: My ex and I remain single, but move on from one another. We lose the desire to have a relationship, but we are able to meet up and have casual sex, while I see the dogs. That would actually never work. I would get feelings back for my ex, because my love is the type that is so strong, that as long as I am not in love with another man one day; my love will just not die if we are both single and unattached. Damn. Well, that's just lovely. It looks like there IS no possible way that I will EVER see them again. Oh wait - unless I marry within the next few years before the dogs DIE< and THEN I will feel totally indifferent to Andrew. This is honestly the worst lose I have suffered in my entire life. And I have lost people close to me; close family have died. This is a worse feeling. - him and I would find the right person to be with eventually
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