TheGuard13 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 All the girls that I've dated who ended up with the bad boy have said this in response to why they left: "I wanted to help him" "He was a good guy, just a bit lost" "He's a nice guy once you get to know him" <-- she said this after he punched her in the face and was in jail. I am not a shrink, but it sounds like most of these women wanted to 'change' these men or try to sculpt them into something else. Meh. I always see this kind of stuff as excuses. They're just rationalizing reasons to stay in an unhealthy relationship. 1
Maleficent Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Nice try. Sorry but no pseudo scientific claptrap can 'excuse' this behaviour. The simple fact is women want a bad boy a lot of the time and I don't judge them for it. It just sucks though when you are the guy that gets dumped for the bad boy. Why not just admit you find the bad boy is more interesting, more exciting, and gets your blood pumping? Stop trying to claim you have no control over it, when it's a choice. You date the bad boy because that is WHAT YOU WANT. </rant> I could see it in some cases. Just like people are attracted to kids and teenagers. It's all about sexual attraction and some people can't control it and end up doing dangerous stuff. Kind of like a person suffering from depression would kill himself and another wouldn't... edit: but I'll add this would be some exceptional cases - definitely would not apply to the majority of the female population! lol 1
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