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I think I just need to vent my frustration here, so here goes :)

 

5 months ago I stopped seeing a girl I was in love with because she didn't want a relationship. I went straight into NC.

 

I got over her, met and got with other girls but none of them could compare to her.

 

Just wednesday night, I randomly/drunkenly bumped into her at an end of exams celebration and we talked for a bit, she said she was annoyed I didn't keep in contact so she deleted me from FB.

 

We ended up sleeping with each other for one last time and everything was good but I saw a set of pictures of her and her ex boyfriend (who she still sees every now and then). I think she is still in love with him and only wanted to sleep with me until they could get back together (they live far apart).

 

I had a great time an all, she asked to keep in touch but I don't think I wanna add her on FB again. I'm not as sad about not being with her because I understand why we aren't and I'm happy being single.

 

I'm sad because I can't stop thinking about her now but I still want her in life by not losing touch.... is that a bad idea? Is it possible to remain in contact when I think I am in love?

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It is but it's gonna hurt. If you still have feelings for her, being friends is impossible. Wait until you're over her to be friends.

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