Monita Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 I just left my bf (details) in last threat I wrote thing is that it's been 2 days and he has been calling me and texting me non stop that I'm his world that im his everything reason I left him is because he cheated in the begining of our relationship we had less than a yr together and now that we are 3years i cant teust him not only that but he lied and his too jelouse he tries to control my evry mood my family loves him his a great guy and I love him to death i know for a fact he hasnt been cheating but i cant be with his jelose self contiouse self anymore its a battle I'm not willing to in again how can I tell him I just want time for me since he can't understand me when I say exactly that!! I'm afraid of falling for that sweet talk crap wich his really good in :/ I'm 22 I'm young and I don't want to be in a controlling relationship please any advice on what to do
hppr Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 First of calm down it's not the end of the world. Second of all how is he jealous and controlling if he is also a great guy I don't understand that one.
sweetheart5381 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 I just left my bf (details) in last threat I wrote thing is that it's been 2 days and he has been calling me and texting me non stop that I'm his world that im his everything reason I left him is because he cheated in the begining of our relationship we had less than a yr together and now that we are 3years i cant teust him not only that but he lied and his too jelouse he tries to control my evry mood my family loves him his a great guy and I love him to death i know for a fact he hasnt been cheating but i cant be with his jelose self contiouse self anymore its a battle I'm not willing to in again how can I tell him I just want time for me since he can't understand me when I say exactly that!! I'm afraid of falling for that sweet talk crap wich his really good in :/ I'm 22 I'm young and I don't want to be in a controlling relationship please any advice on what to do Go NC. Ignore, ignore, ignore. Your gut is talking to you, listen to it. He is calling you non-stop and texting you because he does not respect your position. He believes you will cave and if you do, it will set you up for more of the same controlling crap. Pull the plug... he is not a great guy if he is making you feel this way. Great guys respect you and your word. It doesn't matter if everyone thinks he is great. My ex has a domestic violence record with 25 prior convictions, and yet everyone still said he was a "great guy", loved him to death. They didn't have to endure the hours of threats, physical abuse to myself and my children and then his attempt on my life (which he bargained down to assault). You have your own mind and your own instincts - use them. 1
aussietigerwolf Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 . Pull the plug... he is not a great guy if he is making you feel this way. Great guys respect you and your word. It doesn't matter if everyone thinks he is great. My ex has a domestic violence record with 25 prior convictions, and yet everyone still said he was a "great guy", loved him to death. They didn't have to endure the hours of threats, physical abuse to myself and my children and then his attempt on my life (which he bargained down to assault). You have your own mind and your own instincts - use them. listen to her... my ex has a domestic violence record too and trust me, you do not want to go anywhere near anyone who even shows hints of that sort of behaviour. 1
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