Derek692 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 So I am a 21 year old college student and I'm starting my senior year in the fall and the girl that I'm interested in is 19 years old and will be a sophomore. We go to the same college and we are only 25 mins away from each other during the summer. We didn't meet til the third to last week of the school year when we were at the same party (which was a little over a month ago). We hit off really well. It's crazy because I've never clicked so well with someone so quickly. It was at the point where I was already thinking about asking this girl out. We went to another party the following night and things were still going well. The problem, however, is that she mentioned that she had a boyfriend that has been with her for a little over 2 years, but she was telling me that she was going to break up with him soon. This, of course, made me very concerned and was starting to make me re-consider, but she kept saying how she was really over her boyfriend, so I was like "oh okay she must be really serious". I was right and she dumped him the next week. After the break up, I gave her a couple days and didn't text her so that she could recoup and figure herself out. She texted me to hang out and watch a movie a couple days later and she seemed a lot better. She was even telling me how she was shocked how much better she felt. So the school year ended and we've been seeing each other like 1-2 times a week. At the beginning of the summer we came up with a list of movies we wanted to watch together, and that's almost the only thing we've done this summer, except we went to the beach with some friends the other day and we also had lunch/played arcade games at Dave & Buster's 3 weeks ago. I really wanna do more this girl (more serious dates, hold hands, kiss, etc.) and I would even officially ask this girl out, but we talked at the beginning of the summer and she was saying she needs at least the summer (next 3 months or so) to figure out what she really wants. So, basically I just need some advice on what do with her. Would it ever be okay to hold hands, kiss, etc.? The most we've done is cuddle when she decided to spend the night at my apartment. When is it okay to officially ask this girl out? I really, really like her. I've never fallen this quickly for someone. So far she's exactly what I've been looking for, and all friends thinks she's great and that we would make a great couple. I know I need to give her some time, but at the same time it's so difficult to hold back. She's someone I know would be worth waiting for. Also, how do I keep this girl interested and not let the spark die out?
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