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We had been in a relationship for about two months now.Everything was perfect.He sounded pretty serious about it and all his gestures proved so.He made me join a gym,take up my mba coaching so that we could have a healthy future.We just fought once when I complained he does not have enough time for me.When he explained i understood and stopped expecting as much as I could.Last week I felt little change in his behaviour as he was talking to me and meeting me much lesser than usual.I asked him the reason on which he said he had been busy.I got little offended on this thing and started complaining again on which he got annoyed.He texted me that "us" would be the last priority for him now as he has other things to look after now.then he texted me that we love each other but our needs are different and that he is trying to deliver but not able to much.Then on friday out of the blue he texted that he want to call off the relationship as he thinks he cant handle it.I called him over and over again but he did not respond then after two long days he picked my call and just blasted me saying that I am not the girl for him and that he doesn't feel for me anymore and that I should let him know when I move on that we could be good friends.When I asked him how could he sleep with me then,on that he said he had just been trying to make things work.We work at the same place and its really awkward to have him avoid and ignore me even when I tried initiating contact and told him I respect his decision and could be friends but I feel very hurt and devastated.I am not in mental peace.I really love him to the depth and not able to take it and want him back.what should I do...Please help!!!:(:(

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Once he said the word "busy", you should have just cut off contact. Once a guy uses that "busy" excuse I have nothing else to say to him because I know it's bs. Don't waste your time on him. There are too many other guys out there for you to be pining over this one, especially since you were only dating him for two months.

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