tattoomytoe Posted October 1, 2004 Posted October 1, 2004 well i am currently "transitioning" out of a 2 year live-in relationship. i am moving out, mainly cause i need to pay down my bills, but i also am not happy. i have major trust issues with him, that i cannot seem to let go, plus i think we have both exhausted this relationship. he feels the same way, we both know that we are not "the One's" for each other, but he is one that would rather not do anything...remain at status quo. and that pisses me off, that he would rather lay in crap, than move on. anyways, so i will be out on sunday....but we are not technically breaking up. i told him on wed. that i thought that we should maybe think about seeing other people. maybe not right away, but to at least think about it. he asked if i was breaking up with him...i said no, that i just do not want to get my heart broken too bad, if he decides he wants to go out with someone since we live apart. which is why i said it...i do not want to be hurt again, he did kiss some other girl while we were still "a couple",a.ka.- before i found out! Plus, like i said, i know he is not "the one", so i do not want to be "wasting" my time...which is a bad way to put it i guess. Anyways, so that is what i told him. he didn't really say much, so i told him that was just what i had been thinking, and that i wanted him to think about everything, and just let me know. Putting the ball in his court, so actually prompt Him to make some sort of decision. i guess i want some feed back...i do not know about what......thanks for listening!
tiki Posted October 1, 2004 Posted October 1, 2004 I think you're doing the right thing. If I remember your story correctly, he did you wrong and cheated on you with the other gal. You deserve a man that will not do that to you. Congrats on moving on, it's a tough step. Keep your head up and know that you made the right choice. And come around more often, I was beginning to wonder about you!
Scott S Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Originally posted by tattoomytoe well i am currently "transitioning" out of a 2 year live-in relationship. [sNIP] anyways, so i will be out on sunday....but we are not technically breaking up. [sNIP] he asked if i was breaking up with him...i said no, that i just do not want to get my heart broken too bad, if he decides he wants to go out with someone since we live apart. [sNIP] Plus, like i said, i know he is not "the one", so i do not want to be "wasting" my time...which is a bad way to put it i guess. It sounds to me like you are breaking up. Not faulting your reasons. It sounds like you have recognized that you aren't satisfied, & that you want to move on. But at least give him the benefit of calling a spade a spade, so that he is not left wondering where he stands, & he knows he needs to move on as well.
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