bohica Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Hey Lots of history and lots of problems with my past relationship. We broke up a year ago and cut off all communication several months ago. We have a mutual client that brought us back to communicating twice in recent weeks via email and just business for the most part, however. She has hinted a few times that she might be still struggling with some problems she had and expressed outright once that she now thinks I was right about a lot of things I had said to her about any problems in her life. I actually offered an ear sometime if she ever wanted to talk it out. I didn't mean about us, just about her and any issues she may still be dealing with. I am just trying to be a better person and a friend. I think i've moved on emotionally for the most part. She just sent me another email saying she would like to see me at some point soon just to have a chat. I told her just let me know her thoughts on when. Thoughts by anyone? Suggestions? Thank you in advance Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 If you've moved on emotionally, and want to be there as her friend, then what is it that your apprehensive about? I don't see a problem with it. I wouldn't lead her on in any way though. Link to post Share on other sites
jennaf Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 I think it just depends on if she has moved on yet. My ex-boyfriend recently dumped me, and I definitely haven't moved on yet. I have only tried contacting him twice since the breakup. The first time, he agree to meet up but was very distant and cold. The second time, he didn't respond. Although it's very hurtful that he doesn't want anything to do with my life anymore, I think it makes it so much easier to move on than if he stayed in my life as a friend, because then I would always keep hoping. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bohica Posted May 27, 2013 Author Share Posted May 27, 2013 (edited) Well, after a few text messages and pleasentries she says she no longer thinks its a good idea. Unbelievable, shes just testing me to see if I cared. Conscious or not that is what she did. I wasn't sure if her wanting to see me had anything to do with us. That's probably the case though. I asked her to get back to me when she had an idea when she wanted to meet and all she said was ' thats probably not a good idea ' I told her how it made me feel and what I thought she did. I then said I wasn't mad but thought it wasn't fair and then said she shouldnt contact me anymore. She hasn't responed, which is typical. Edited May 27, 2013 by bohica Link to post Share on other sites
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