foghorn777 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Just trying to figure out if she really does love me or not. Been married 9 yrs and I constantly have to ask her for attention or a kiss. She never well hardly says she loves me, doesn't do the things that we used to wife do. Now I have been turned down four different times for sex. The only time she wants me for anything is when she needs someone to fix things around the house or watch the kids so she can do things. I bought her diamond ear rings for valentines day, cost me 2,000 bucks. Then i found out that she cheated on me when I was getting better from a back surgery. We are trying to work on it . While this time I have bought her flowers and other stuff......all I get is Thanks. No sex, no affection, it's like I'm only wanted for as a roommate. I asked her what do I mean to her? all she said is "I'm important to her" When do I give up on her. The problem is I do love her, but I never get anything in return. Is she staying for the kids or dose she really love me? so confused need help:lmao:
Emeral Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 from what you wrote, it doesnt look like she loves you, stop buying her stuff if you think you will win her back with money, and try to win her back the same way you got her in the first place. look at what it is shes actually missing, that she had to go outside looking for. put the sex and kissing aside for a bit, and go after the other stuff, i dont know could be specific conversations, could be kickstarting her career, could be anything, and if you look for it you will find it, you wont get her back by spending money, forcing her into intimacy etc and be happy, women do get easier with happier guys, find the things that make you happy and do more of them, reflect that happiness onto her... im not experienced but these are my 2 cents
therhythm Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Just trying to figure out if she really does love me or not. Been married 9 yrs and I constantly have to ask her for attention or a kiss. She never well hardly says she loves me, doesn't do the things that we used to wife do. Now I have been turned down four different times for sex. The only time she wants me for anything is when she needs someone to fix things around the house or watch the kids so she can do things. I bought her diamond ear rings for valentines day, cost me 2,000 bucks. Then i found out that she cheated on me when I was getting better from a back surgery. We are trying to work on it . While this time I have bought her flowers and other stuff......all I get is Thanks. No sex, no affection, it's like I'm only wanted for as a roommate. I asked her what do I mean to her? all she said is "I'm important to her" When do I give up on her. The problem is I do love her, but I never get anything in return. Is she staying for the kids or dose she really love me? so confused need help:lmao: She is does not show you any affection, turn you down for sex and cheat on you, and you need ask if she loves you? I am sorry man but you better begin to look for another wife, this one is poison!
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