bella_vita Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 So I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years about 3 weeks ago. We were doing a long distance relationship while he was at school for about a year and a half. Everything was fine. We were having a lot of sex nothing seemed out of the normal. But right before he got home from school we were fighting quite a bit. The day he got home from school I thought everything was okay. We even had sex. Than two hours later he came home from school and dumped me. I had been waiting for him to get home from school for almost two years and then he comes home and dumps me? Two days after I went to Florida to visit my mom and we hadn't talked for that whole week. I see him the day I get back to get all my stuff and he's laughing being all smiley. AND THEN KISSES ME! So I was like wow what an *******. And we didn't talk for 5 days until he tweeted at me! Then we didn't speak for 3 more days and I tweeted I went to a party and he freaked out saying we were only broken up 2 weeks how could I do this. He apparently was sooooo sad without me and said he regretted breaking up with me. Then the next day I EMAIL him to see if we can make it work and he's like I didn't regret breaking up with you. I just said that to not hurt your feelings. Sorry but theres no chance of us getting back together ever. So after that moment I haven't spoken to him. And some guy asked me on a date. We've only been broken up almost 3 weeks and I just don't know if I should. Do you think he's confused and wants to be with me? Or he's an ******* and I should just move on? I just feel so guilty, i don't know why Link to post Share on other sites
aisuru Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Yes, you should move on. You are your first priority right now. Ignore him. Link to post Share on other sites
crazy1234 Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 you should forget it and move on..what was he thinking?i mean cmon! Link to post Share on other sites
Author bella_vita Posted May 24, 2013 Author Share Posted May 24, 2013 I know! Ugh it sucks so much. I just feel like maybe theres still hope for us to be together. As pathetic as it feels I still do have hope. But if you think i should move on and go on the date then I will Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Move on. That's the best thing for you to do. Maybe wait a little bit till you start dating. Just give yourself a bit of time to get over this recent heartbreak. If this guy that asked you out ends up liking you and your still thinking about your ex, then you could just be putting yourself into another situation. Or if you're there now then jump in head first. Everyone's different when it comes to grieving. Some people heal faster than others. Link to post Share on other sites
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