Tdog123 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 So its been just over 3 months now, and the heartache is starting to subside, and she has been in a new relationship now for just over a month. i am just wondering if i should at least get her a happy birthday card or whether i should just leave it. we have a 3 year old together for those of you that dont know, so im not in any kind of NC, i try to speak to her as little as possible as i do still have feelings for her but as i said it is getting better by the day. so if you guys dont think its wise for me to get her a card from me, what about from our son? thanks
michaelbluth Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I would not do that. You need to be cutting the emotional ties. Giving her a birthday card or wishing her happy birthday will not help accomplish that. I understand you probably want to because you want to still have some connection but it's not worth it. It really isn't.
Author Tdog123 Posted May 23, 2013 Author Posted May 23, 2013 yea, i didnt think it would be a good idea to get one from me. but from our son i guess theres no real harm in that is there. im pretty sure her new boyfriend will shower her with gifts and stuff anyhow lol
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