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is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ?? She knows clearly that he doesnt love her anymore. They have a 1 years old baby.

I cant message her and tell her everything because he will be angry with me. HE wants to end it with good terms. I am posting it not to hear people opposing to me , i hope for some practical advices to make his wife divorce him or hate him.

 

( i can log in her facebook acc and i have her phone no ) THANKS!!

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sg, "is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ??"

No.........

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ThatJustHappened Established Member

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Oh goodness. You need help. Please find yourself a therapist.

 

To answer your question...definitely no. You can't make someone divorce their husband.

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spice4life Established Member

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Why would you want to do something like that? That's crazy and very "bunny boilerish". That will back fire on you.

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waterwoman Established Member

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Hello again seriousgirl <sigh>

 

No, there isn't. Sorry :rolleyes:

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ThatJustHappened Established Member

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Why would you want to do something like that? That's crazy and very "bunny boilerish". That will back fire on you.

 

This whole thing is going to backfire on her.

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findingnemo Established Member

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Why would you want to do something like that? That's crazy and very "bunny boilerish". That will back fire on you.

 

Big time back fire!!!!

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mammasita Established Member

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Why would you want a man who is cheating on his wife AND 1 year old baby?

 

You know that little thing about history repeating itself? Yeah.....

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Has anyone questioned how/why she can log into the BS' Facebook acct.? I find that a huge invasion of privacy, if I am reading that correctly.

 

Anyway, you need to really back off because this will definitely backfire and I am not sure there is a way for you to make her divorce her husband. This is definitely on the verge of "bunny boiler" type behavior.

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lilmisscantbewrong Established Member

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You can log into her FB account??? This makes no sense.

 

Leave him alone and let him figure it out. To do any of what you are suggesting will only make you look bad.

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TheOW Established Member

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Yes

 

Tell her the truth, but you wont do that, so no.

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spice4life Established Member

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Has anyone questioned how/why she can log into the BS' Facebook acct.? I find that a huge invasion of privacy, if I am reading that correctly.

 

Anyway, you need to really back off because this will definitely backfire and I am not sure there is a way for you to make her divorce her husband. This is definitely on the verge of "bunny boiler" type behavior.

 

I totally agree. She can get into trouble with the law for hacking into this woman's FB account. Why people feel it's okay to resort to this type of behavior is beyond me. It does nothing but make the person being hacked feel resentment.

 

Seriousgirl, please get yourself into therapy pronto! You have an unhealthy obsession with this man and I highly doubt it's love. When you love someone you don't want to do things that will hurt them. He's asked you to leave him be and I highly suggest you do that otherwise you will come off looking like a crazy stalker. Focus on YOUR life instead.

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is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ?? She knows clearly that he doesnt love her anymore. They have a 1 years old baby.

I cant message her and tell her everything because he will be angry with me. HE wants to end it with good terms. I am posting it not to hear people opposing to me , i hope for some practical advices to make his wife divorce him or hate him.

 

( i can log in her facebook acc and i have her phone no ) THANKS!!

 

Read all your threads you have started. They are full of sentences put together by someone who IS NOT thinking rationally.

 

I fear you are going to do something silly.

 

Please think about what you are doing or planning on doing. None of it is wise or normal.

 

Before you turn into a complete psychopath, please find a therapist, because I think you need one. I am not being nasty, I am seriously giving you advice because what you are writing worries me a lot.

 

Your grievance should not lie with either of them, it should lie with you.

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This is a crazy thread...

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CarrieT Established Member

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He is using you, and you are psychotic.

^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^

 

Read it again.

 

And again.

 

 

Now print it out and learn it as your mantra....

 

 

Learn to believe it.

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Can you maybe take a vacation somewhere warm with fruity alcoholic drinks complete with mini umbrellas? I think you need to rest and regroup and get away from the everyday for a while. See that there are other things, a whole world out there, tons of people- it'll help you not fixate on this one little married man with new baby and his marriage he won't leave for you. Maybe take a trusted friend with you? If not, take some really good books and meet people when you get there.

 

You really need a break.

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lilmisscantbewrong Established Member

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Is this person real?

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is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ?? She knows clearly that he doesnt love her anymore. They have a 1 years old baby.

I cant message her and tell her everything because he will be angry with me. HE wants to end it with good terms. I am posting it not to hear people opposing to me , i hope for some practical advices to make his wife divorce him or hate him.

 

( i can log in her facebook acc and i have her phone no ) THANKS!!

 

The answer to this is no. You can't make anyone do anything.

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Yes

 

Tell her the truth, but you wont do that, so no.

 

There's no guarantee that telling the wife will make her divorce him. Plenty of betrayed spouses reconcile with their cheating spouses.

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There's no guarantee that telling the wife will make her divorce him. Plenty of betrayed spouses reconcile with their cheating spouses.

 

In fact it will probably do the exact opposite. This is just not smart behavior on her part.

 

But, where did she go??

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Your thinking is extremely obsessive, if you try to purposly hurt him by pitting him and his wife against eachother he's gonna get a restraining order and him and wifey will cuddle up on the couch and watch single white female and he'll further lie, she'll feel bad he has a crazy stalker and hold him closer and boast his ego about how irresistable he is. Your craziness will make you loose all credibilty. Unless you go Amy Fisher on BW he's not going anywhere, and in that case you'll be behind bars wallowing by yourself!

 

You may love him, but its not the kind of love that goes anywhere good, you need a support group or a prefessional to talk to or you really need to take our responces seriously as most of us have been a party to an A, in some way shape or form.

 

Good luck with sorting it out, if you are a real OW who needs a shoulder we or at least I (speaking for myself) am available to chat and listen.

 

One Love OP:(

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This thread is making my eyes cross...

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scatterd Established Member

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Again; You cant make anybody do what they do not want to do. Rinse, Repeat.

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You can't. He doesn't want to. You need to move on. You are really starting to sound unhinged.

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is there anyway to make his wife to divorce her first ?? She knows clearly that he doesnt love her anymore. They have a 1 years old baby.

I cant message her and tell her everything because he will be angry with me. HE wants to end it with good terms. I am posting it not to hear people opposing to me , i hope for some practical advices to make his wife divorce him or hate him.

 

( i can log in her facebook acc and i have her phone no ) THANKS!!

 

No, but trying to do those things will probably backfire and make him end up hating you.

 

You have no way to control what she chooses to do.

 

It may be easier for you to try to get him to divorce her, instead of trying to get her, who doesn't even know you, to divorce him. You may have more influence on him than you have on her. But in the end, people do what they want and even if you tell her all about the affair, he may just hate you and then she forgives him and they end up reconciling.

 

My bottom line is: stop while you're ahead...or maybe behind..I dunno lol. I don't think your plans will work and I think if you have to go to such lengths, you probably do not have a good relationship. Do you really want to be with a man who is only with you because you forced his wife to divorce him, so now with no other choice, he shacks up with you? :confused:

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