SuperGeek Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Most girls don't tell me anything. They just stop communicating with me and eventually after the second or third call to them I get the hint. A few women have given me a reason why it didn't work out, but it's very rare. Most just ignore me. So if a girl stops communicating with me and ignores me for a period of time, I just delete the contact out of my phone and starting dating someone else. This was before I gave up on dating though. I will most likely die single so I'm trying to accept this fate.
SuperGeek Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Wow. I've never had that happen. Would be kind of cool to have that happen actually. In my case the girl just moves on to the next guy with no response or anything. I'm on rejection #12 so I'm just done with it all. my just moments ago now ex girlfriend just called me scraming obscenities.
suladas Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 (edited) Text, call or face to face. In person is obviously best but if it's short text is fine. Fade out is fine if it's really short because then it's just mutual and neither person communicating further. But if it's short and you don't want to go out again just say so, I hate ignoring. As far as details, being honest. Either give no reasons or the real ones. Don't spew a bunch of BS. I don't think the details are overly important because it means you don't want to be with that person anymore and that's pretty clear. I've had the ignoring, and then days later get a text why and it pissed me off a lot. I was more hurt and angry about the way the break up was done then the actual breaking up part. Edited May 23, 2013 by suladas
Simon Phoenix Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I'd rather they be completely blunt and straightforward. The "fade" is by far the worst way to break up with someone you've been on more than a handful of dates with. It's one thing if you've been out a couple times. In those cases, fading is fine, but if you have had enough dates where you need fingers on both hands to count them, you need to "man up" and tell people where they stand. I don't even care if it's a little mean -- the girl being mean to me will help me move on a lot quicker than if she tries to sugarcoat it. But the "fadeout", where they stop responding and hope you take the hint, is cowardly.
tbf Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 (edited) I would be very impressed if my boyfriend broke up with me in song/broadway musical theater/flashmob style. That seems to be a trend on the internet nowadays.Psy, is that you? Edited May 23, 2013 by tbf
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