jolie_baby Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 A friend of mine is in this this relationship with a 23 YO male. She's 40. She swears up and down that he is her soulmate and that he is "the one" for her. The issues that they have are those typical "young games" that people do when they're in their 20's and think it's cool to make the other jealous, fight and jump out of the car, argue over stupid little things. At ANY age, their relationship doesn't sound "healthy"... but I've never been in this situation, so who am I to judge? I've never walked a day in their shoes, so maybe it is love? Anyone else been in this type of situation? Any advice I can give her? Does the age difference play a big part in this whole thing? Please let me know if you know more information as well. I honestly think any advice you may give now could back fire; meaning she would think you are jealous or something... but in a while, few months at the most, she will find it out herself, either by him going after a girl his age or her realizing this is not all what a woman who is 40+ really needs in the long term... I have a male friend who is 52, his last girlfriend was 28, I could have told him from the beginning my opinion but in the end kept quiet for the same reason above... a couple of months down the line he told me it is likely not working out... (again- some relationship with age gaps do but they are not the norm....)
Kelemvor Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 You've been watching too much porn. I speak from experience, as do several women on here (and our friends). Don't worry, you might be able to avoid impotence if you eat healthfully and exercise regularly so you won't have to take statins and high blood pressure meds. Well thank God you've got anecdotal and word of mouth experience. That's the best evidence based research out there you know. Good to know that as your guy ages, he just can't use it so no need to worry about him chasing a piece of young ass. I guess he should worry about his aging wife chasing after the young pool boy! lol
apple OR orange Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 alot of sex in the in the mind (you can do it alone 90% of the time), so this will depend on what that person wants, if there doing sex then its in the mind. They wont have anything physcial in common like shopping etc.... they might talk alike about the 1 or 2 items they really like (cars, politics, shoes or something). I cna bet they wont last as the fact its on this forum says it out of the "norm" and out of the norm stuff never lasts.
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