Davidcopper Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I am married and have a female friend I text a lot like 5 nights a week, we haven't met in about 6 months and before that it was years ago (we used to have the same ftiends)but when we met I was very turned on by how hot she looked and even though I'm married there was some flirting and talking about her kissing other girls and stuff. We flirted a lot by text after meeting to a point where we talked about sexual fantasies and the fact she has sex toys, it then went cool as she said boundaries were crossed but there is still lots of flirting, compliments to each other etc and we are meeting up in a few weeks. Nobody knows we text or meet up and I just want to know what is she thinking or expecting? She always tells me to have sweet dreams etc ( during the talk of fantasies she referred to herself as a dirty cherub and wished me dreams that weren't at all sweet) it could be she just thinks we're good friends but I just need to know
will1988 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 REALLY? If that is not crossing the boundries of flirting than I don't know what is! Lets list the facts that you stated: A. You text this woman multiple nights of the week in secret because you are married. B. You are attracted to her physically, and obviouslly emotionally too since you are texting her so much. C. You are planing on meeting soon. D. You talk about sex and sex toys and she says something along the lines of "I wish you dirty wet dreams about me". E. You are keeping this secret from your wife and your friends. My conclusision You like this women. She is either a really big flirt, likes the attention, or is in to you as well but is trying to refrane from causing you to cheat. You want to cheat. You are starting to cross over from the "Gray Zone" of what is right and what is wrong for a married man, in to the "red zone". Your actions are already enough to cause your wife to go ape schidt on you. If you progress any further, then you will be having a full blown affair. Whether physical or emotional is besides the point. If you love your wife and want things to work, I would cut ties with this other woman. If not, do as you please. Howeve, realize that schidt will hit the fan at some point and YOU will be the cause of all of your problems, everyone elses problems, and all the miss fortunes and drama that befalls you! Good luck! Think about it and do the right thing!
Emeral Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 ummm, why are you even asking mate, you are walking down cheating lane, are you that unhappy with your wife, is it that bad? if not, get back to your senses and stop what you are doing, even if it doesnt end up in sex, if your wife finds out you stand no chance, think of it in reverse, if your wife was doing this behind your back, how would you feel.
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