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FitChick Established Member

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People seem to forget that the co-worker WORKS WITH HIM. Not a good idea under the best of circumstances to date a co-worker.

 

Just tell her to stop sexting you (I wonder if this would qualify as sexual harrassment in the workplace) because you have just started dating someone else. Don't give out any more details because clearly her friend, your other co-worker, is relaying information about you to rebound co-worker. Just say, "I prefer keeping my work life and my private life separate and I know you will respect that." Just keep repeating that phrase no matter what questions anyone asks. It's a good policy to have regardless.

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Keenly Established Member

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This is actually a good point, better than mine.

 

If OP messes with the office chick, it could end up being WAY worse than just having the internet girl find out.

 

From what I've seen, crazy girls love to falsely accuse unsuspecting guys of rape (an accusal of rape in the US is all that is needed for a conviction, unfortunately).

 

So, on second thought, this is definitely not worth it.

 

I'd like to see her accuse me of rape when I have texts from her hitting on me .

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He hasn't even met the internet girl. It's a fantasy relationship at this point. Why communicate for 1.5 months and not meet?

 

Oh, you're right. Hahaha. Oh man. Wasting our time with fantasies.

 

OP you already waited 1 month too long and also fouled up by telling a woman you never met about your feelings. She must actually like you to overlook all that. Start doing things correctly before it's too late.

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Keenly Established Member

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Oh, you're right. Hahaha. Oh man. Wasting our time with fantasies.

 

OP you already waited 1 month too long and also fouled up by telling a woman you never met about your feelings. She must actually like you to overlook all that. Start doing things correctly before it's too late.

 

I'm not asking for advice on the girl I'm interested in. we are doing just fine , thanks. Its cool how your telling me about something you have zero knowledge of though. I actually did pretty good by telling her how I feel, since the response I got was mutual.

 

I havent messed anything up, and I wouldn't change anything about what's happened so far. You don't know her, or me, so to claim that you know its already headed south is keyboard speculation.

therhythm Established Member

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Ok, I have not read all the comments here but let me break this for you...

 

You prefer to play Diablo 3 with a online girl that have sex with your hot co-worker because you think (kind of over think if you ask me) she is manipulative?

 

Good luck in life... you will need it!

GB25 Established Member

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Ok, I have not read all the comments here but let me break this for you...

 

You prefer to play Diablo 3 with a online girl that have sex with your hot co-worker because you think (kind of over think if you ask me) she is manipulative?

 

Good luck in life... you will need it!

 

Agreed..I would bang the co worker all day and then talk to the Halo 3 or diablo or metal of honor whatever it is girl also..

 

but hey thats just me..

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Ok, I have not read all the comments here but let me break this for you...

 

You prefer to play Diablo 3 with a online girl that have sex with your hot co-worker because you think (kind of over think if you ask me) she is manipulative?

 

Good luck in life... you will need it!

 

Not as much luck as the guy that gets into involvement with a manipulative co-worker who seems to be able to complicate things at an introductory level.

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therhythm Established Member

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Not as much luck as the guy that gets into involvement with a manipulative co-worker who seems to be able to complicate things at an introductory level.

 

What involvement are you talking about? OP has been offered sex and I don't think she has requested anything in exchange... Or have I missed something in the way?

A HOT woman can manipulate me with sex as much as she wants :)

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What involvement are you talking about? OP has been offered sex and I don't think she has requested anything in exchange... Or have I missed something in the way?

 

You have missed everything. Completely missed the point of the entire thread. Good job. Instead you wanted to judge a situation you don't even understand.

 

 

I don't need sex like some desperate teenage boy. I'm looking for something more. I'm not looking to bang a co worker , who would be using me for sex, and then have nothing at the end of it.

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Keenly Established Member

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In must be one of four guys on the planet that uses my brain instead of my balls think.

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GB25 Established Member

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You have missed everything. Completely missed the point of the entire thread. Good job. Instead you wanted to judge a situation you don't even understand.

 

 

I don't need sex like some desperate teenage boy. I'm looking for something more. I'm not looking to bang a co worker , who would be using me for sex, and then have nothing at the end of it.

 

 

Yikes, good luck bud :(

therhythm Established Member

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In must be one of four guys on the planet that uses my brain instead of my balls think.

 

Yep it looks like you have it all figured out.. bravo!:bunny::bunny::bunny:

Treasa Established Member

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Ok, I have not read all the comments here but let me break this for you...

 

You prefer to play Diablo 3 with a online girl that have sex with your hot co-worker because you think (kind of over think if you ask me) she is manipulative?

 

Good luck in life... you will need it!

 

I agree. Diablo 3?? Dude, that is so last year. There are better games to play. :p

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Keenly Established Member

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Haha. You guys are ironic. Telling the guy fighting off multiple women "good luck" like I don't know what I'm doing.

Looks like I have plenty of luck to me :D

 

And Teresa , I'm more of a battlefield player, but most people have crap PCs so I take what I can get .

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GB25 Established Member

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Ok Lewis Skolnick you do what you do player..

 

You keep fighting off those women and zombies in Halo 3..lol

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Keenly Established Member

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Some ones a little jealous.

 

 

Besides, everyone knows zombies can't eat through that armor.

 

 

Duuuuuuh ;)

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therhythm Established Member

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Haha. You guys are ironic. Telling the guy fighting off multiple women "good luck" like I don't know what I'm doing.

Looks like I have plenty of luck to me :D

 

And Teresa , I'm more of a battlefield player, but most people have crap PCs so I take what I can get .

 

Agree, sorry I failed to see how women were fighting for you. You indeed are in no need of good luck!

 

Enjoy the computer games! :bunny::bunny:

dreamingoftigers Established Member

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Well it's nice to see a guy not coming up with stupid reasons to put his dick in every girl that had a body above room temperature.

 

He'll probably do pretty well overall in finding a partner that will respect him because he respects himself and the women he's interested in.

 

He also isn't into someone that doesn't respect themselves.

 

No wonder he's gotten interest.

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Keenly Established Member

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Well, it seems that this thread has been derailed in my absence.....with OP doing much of the derailing. :confused:

 

 

Carry on...

 

Threads already served its purpose. I got the confirmation I needed that the co worker isn't actually interested in me, rather just the attention I was having her. She got jealous that I wouldn't bow to her, and is trying to get my attention again. I don't roll like that so I'll pass.

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therhythm Established Member

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Well it's nice to see a guy not coming up with stupid reasons to put his dick in every girl that had a body above room temperature.

 

He'll probably do pretty well overall in finding a partner that will respect him because he respects himself and the women he's interested in.

 

He also isn't into someone that doesn't respect themselves.

 

No wonder he's gotten interest.

 

This one is funny, maybe you can enlighten me on how having sex and fun with a hot woman is lacking self respect? :lmao:

Treasa Established Member

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Keenly is definitely the most attractive male, personality-wise, in this entire thread to me.

 

I respect someone who doesn't have sex just because a pussy is available. It sounds like it's available to just about anyone who wants it. Using your genitals to gain self-esteem. That is sad.

 

Standards are a good thing.

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therhythm Established Member

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Keenly is definitely the most attractive male, personality-wise, in this entire thread to me.

 

I respect someone who doesn't have sex just because a pussy is available. It sounds like it's available to just about anyone who wants it. Using your genitals to gain self-esteem. That is sad.

 

Standards are a good thing.

 

Nice! maybe you can play some Diablo 3 together ;)

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Treasa Established Member

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This sounds like a hit on his looks to me.

 

It's more that I don't exactly know what the rest of you look like. I thought that was obvious. :confused:

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Treasa Established Member

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Nice! maybe you can play some Diablo 3 together ;)

 

Please note above where I indicated that Diablo 3 is not my kind of game.

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Treasa Established Member

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I would like to amend my previous statement.

 

Keenly is the most physically attractive man in this thread, also.

 

Although Lani's dog IS damn cute...

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