emoore2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I haven't talked to my ex-fling in about 6 months. We ended things over a year ago, but I really wanted to send a closure text since I won't see him for another 6 months. Things didn't end smoothly and a lot of things were left unsaid in my opinion. Do you think this is a good idea? Should I send it via Facebook, text, or not at all?
iouaname Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Things are better left unsaid than said just to stir up old emotions... 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 6 months? It's closed, in my opinion. What is there to be said after 6 months? Exactly. Why would you want to rip open healing wounds? You've come this far. Let it alone. 1
crazy1234 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 why fall into that dark abyss of hell deliberately?dont 'rip open healing wounds' like brokenheartedsaviour said.
aisuru Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 You ended things a year ago. Nope. I think you lost the opportunity for a closure text about 11 months ago, regardless of the fact you last spoke six months ago.
SadHumiliated Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I haven't talked to my ex-fling in about 6 months. We ended things over a year ago, but I really wanted to send a closure text since I won't see him for another 6 months. Things didn't end smoothly and a lot of things were left unsaid in my opinion. Do you think this is a good idea? Should I send it via Facebook, text, or not at all? The truth is, the silence between you two has said everything already. There is no closure until you come to terms with the fact that it was just a fling. 2
Author emoore2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Author Posted May 23, 2013 I definitely think I've comes to term with the relationship but I just wanted to basically ask if we could start fresh as friends. Last time I talked to him I said some things I regret and it was overall just a messy interaction.
xorro Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I think it's always good to try to leave things in a civil way.. Unless of course he was awful, or you had some sort of co-dependence problem. If not, then I think sending the text is nice and gives good closure. As long as you're careful to word it correctly. It's possible he won't be ready to hear from you, but if that's the case, make sure you don't get drawn into any mud-slinging.
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