Author ryla84 Posted May 28, 2013 Author Posted May 28, 2013 Hi guys! Thank you KathyM and the rest of you for all the advise. There is a lot of negativity in the past posts and even though there were some good, valid points I don't want to act too hastily. I did one of those relationship exercise where you list down the pros and cons of your relationship. And its sorta sad because the only con in my list is this "silent treatment" he does. I can't think of any other bad things. The pros are he is genuinely a very loving partner, he takes care of me when I'm sick and when I was visiting him he makes sure that they is always food so that I won't be hungry. When I was out of work he helped with my bills, he respects my family - I can tell him all the bad things my family did to me and he will answer positively about them. He listens to me complain and have never asked me to keep quiet and when I do keep quiet, he would try to pry it out of me which is very ironic. When I wanted to change my career, he supported me all the way and the list goes on. I am not a perfect person either. For him to still love me all these past 5 years, I owe the guy at least an opportunity to explain before I make any decision. Anyway, thanks to this forum and everyone who posted, I feel way better now and prepared for whatever the outcome is. No matter how much you love somebody, you have to make sure you keep loving yourself.
Author ryla84 Posted May 28, 2013 Author Posted May 28, 2013 Not married and you already and still dont know how to deal with eachother. why mssg?you are grown call or go to his house. maybe he is addict and felt like you are taken his best friend away. dont think he will change for a wedding or once you are married. at the end its better to end a engagement then a marriage To answer your question, I can't go to his house because I'm currently out of the country for work. I'll only be able to see him in July.
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