younglove17 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Hi there, just wanted to post a quick update. As described in my previous breakup thread, my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago for another girl, they dated for about a week but apparently "things didn't work out." He's also been wearing the same outfit almost everyday. We have been in NC for the entire time. he unfriended me on facebook, ignores/glares at me in school and he is the one who dumped me when a week earlier we were discussing our future (ie having kids) and two days before the breakup he was also fine. I have almost completely moved on and in fact, I don't usually think about him unless something comes up. So today, I noticed I was missing a contact on snapchat (app for the iPhone) and I realized that he had blocked me. This would have happened within the last 3 days because he was a contact for quite awhile after the breakup. I have made NO attempts to contact him whatsoever - the last time we spoke is when i wished him good luck and made it clear that i was open to being friendly. So why would he do this? I'm not hurt at all, just surprised by the strangeness of his behavior. I thought he had long since moved on from me as well? If he hadn't, wouldn't he do the opposite and TRY to contact me, instead of acting like I'm a clingy ex girlfriend who wont leave him alone? I may have been the dumpee, but I remember the good times in our relationship. I still have some old pictures somewhere(though I don't look at them) and i have kept some of the cute cards/gifts he gave me, for memories sake. But why does it seem like he's trying to erase me from his life, when all he has to do is move on but remember the good times? Thanks
aisuru Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Ummm, he's removing you from his life. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but this is what people do when they break up. The rejection stings, but it will strengthen you as a person. Stop worrying about why he is doing anything. Start worrying about yourself and what you're going to do for yourself. 3
Author younglove17 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 Thanks for your response: I'm past the "ouch that stings" stage, and I've long accepted that we will never be together again. Yes, I'm guilty of concerning myself a tiny bit with what he does, but only because he somehow keeps making appearances in my life. If I never had to see him again, he most likely would never cross my mind again (except when reflecting on high school experiences). I just don't understand his strange behavior at all - acting hateful when people say he still loves me? Ah well, you're right anyway. He no longer matters and I suppose it's a lost cause trying to figure him out. 1
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