grantmeserenity27 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Okay so this is quite complicated and long, I apologize if you fall asleep from boredom... here it goes... Basically me and this lad were amazing friends, really got on. Then after a few years he told me that he "liked me more than a friend" I was honestly taken by surprise, even though I know it often happens. Anyway I told him where I stood and that was that. We got past it and he got over me. We became good friends again. But then some other, so called mates of ours, started some bullshyte up... they said that I told them that this guy forced himself on me one night. Which he didn't and I never said. So my friend basically had rumours going around that he was a rapist. I can understand his initial anger of course! He didn't fully ever believe me that I hadn't said anything so our friendship was ruined once again. Then a few days later he decided to tell everyone about a secret of mine, which is true and could lead me to trouble. I normally don't really care about what people think of me, but when people I see everyday are judging me and know all about my personal life... it's difficult. My problem is that I don't really know how to handle the situation. I'm extremely hurt that he didn't believe me and then broke our trust!!! I can get over people knowing and thinking bad of me, I just don't know whether to talk to him and just have it out and ask him why he did it or just leave things. Thanks!!!
Author grantmeserenity27 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 Thanks! I guess you're right just leave it to fizzle out. I just wasn't sure whether to ask him straight out!!!! 1
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