jasn88cubs Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Sometimes I feel I come off as clingy but I try not to. Such as last night when I left my girlfriend, I just wanted to sit and talk and we did. I'm not going to see her the next two days due to our work so I kissed her good bye more than usual and told her love you more than usual. Like In my mind, it's me just saying to her "I'll miss you" though part of me worries she might think I was being a bit cling. Now I will say this. We do see each other alot, but we also have our own time. We also do not text every second of the day we aren't together. So I just worry that sometimes I come off as clingy when I'm not. Women, what to you is clingy?
clia Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I would think it was clingy if a guy made a big deal and got all lovey dovey because he wasn't going to see me for two whole days. But then again, I have a very low tolerance for clinginess. 2
Treasa Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I would think it was clingy if a guy made a big deal and got all lovey dovey because he wasn't going to see me for two whole days. But then again, I have a very low tolerance for clinginess. As usual, I'm certain that clia and I were cleft from the same part of the universe.
Iama Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 It depends on her. What to do to find out if you're being clingy. Don't do anything you think of as clingy and see if your gf notices or does them herself. I.e - you think txting every day is clingy - don't do it and see if she does it. If she does then she's obviously enjoying it and you're just fulfilling her needs
Author jasn88cubs Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 I would think it was clingy if a guy made a big deal and got all lovey dovey because he wasn't going to see me for two whole days. But then again, I have a very low tolerance for clinginess. ok I wasn't like "love you ill miss you sooooo much, i love you, i wish i could see you" it was more like "love ya, i'll see you soon, hopefully we can do something like grab a quick lunch friday or something, love ya bye"
Author jasn88cubs Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 also..like i felt needy because i said well i close wednesday and thursday so i likely wont see you unless we do something in the afternoon is that needy?
Treasa Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Ok, you know how some chihuahuas seem to give off this nervous vibe? You're doing it. Just by the frequent questioning. Chill. Relax. Just...be happy.
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