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Honestly, does a non-wealthy guy stand a chance with hot, adult women?

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MomsSpaghetti Established Member

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All the hot wives in my community are married to wealthy guys. I'm sure many of these guys also have attractive personalities, but any hot woman can find a guy with an attractive personality and money. I don't feel like I stand a chance. How many hot women would be willing to live below the 5-luxury-vacations-per-year lifestyle they can easily marry into?

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If you can get any man you want, why would you settle for anything less than what you want?

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Some hot women value other things besides money. I know several hot women who married men who had other great qualities, but money was not one of them. I married my husband when we were college students. I was unemployed, he had a part-time seasonal job. Money was not high on my priority list, but I did consider ambition and work ethic and goal driven attitude to be important.

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Blimey where the hell do you live? Hollywood? :laugh:

 

90% of the people I know are working class girls and there with working class guys, hot or not, smart or not, funny or not!

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If you can get any man you want, why would you settle for anything less than what you want?

 

Exactly. So am I pretty much screwed?

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If you can take me on three camping/float trips per year, you're in!

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Blimey where the hell do you live?

 

The suburbs.

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You're right. You don't stand a chance.

 

You realize that now you'll never be happy, right? Since you won't be able to get a hot chick who only wants money, that erases ALL chances of any happiness for you? Good. I just wanted to make sure you're aware of that.

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Why are you so concentrated on "hot" women? How old are you?

 

Change your ridiculously immature attitude and you might find a woman YOU find beautiful for more than just her looks.

 

Not that there shouldn't be initial physical attraction to some extent, but unless you're completely emotionally void (entirely possible) your outlook of someone should change if you appreciate them as a person.

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Why are you so concentrated on "hot" women? How old are you? QUOTE]

 

Forget that where are all these rich women who luxury holidays 5 times a year? I don't think ive ever met anyone who does that! :laugh:

 

 

My advice would be that most girls don't care about money but I guess you and me must be from very different places/backgrounds so my advice is probably pretty pointless!

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Why are you so concentrated on "hot" women? How old are you?

 

I'm in my mid-20's and of course I'd take "hot", "cute", "pretty", "elegant", etc. The word "hot" wasn't meant to designate exclusively the Megan Fox-like women when I used it.

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If you aren't rich, I hope you're really good-looking, then. Or tall.

 

Wait, sorry, I mean good-looking AND tall. According to a lot of men here, you can't be one or the other. You are either both or neither.

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Wait, sorry, I mean good-looking AND tall. According to a lot of men here, you can't be one or the other. You are either both or neither.

 

 

"Good looks" and "height" or not independent of each other. You can't take Brad Pitt's face, pin it on a 5'4" guy's body, and have the resulting figure still be "good-looking."

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"Good looks" and "height" or not independent of each other. You can't take Brad Pitt's face, pin it on a 5'4" guy's body, and have the resulting figure still be "good-looking."

 

:laugh::lmao:

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What's the cutoff point when a guy is tall enough to be considered attractive?

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What's the cutoff point when a guy is tall enough to be considered attractive?

 

There's no universal constant. Every girl has what she considers "short" and a lot say , "I simply can't find short guys attractive. I just can't."

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Poor and middle class "hot" guys get "hot" women, however you define "hot" for either.

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There's no universal constant. Every girl has what she considers "short" and a lot say , "I simply can't find short guys attractive. I just can't."

 

So you're saying that each female out there is, or has the potential to be, attracted to a different kind of guy?

 

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There's no universal constant. Every girl has what she considers "short" and a lot say , "I simply can't find short guys attractive. I just can't."

 

I had a girl stand on tiptoes nex to me in a bar once - when i asked her what she was doing she was like "checking i wouldnt be taller than you in heels" :lmao: i thought that was hilarious!! :laugh:

 

...and it also made me grateful im not half an inch shorter! :L :L

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Tom Cruise was a sexy symbol for a LOT of women for a long time, and he's 5'7".

 

Oh, ladies, wait for it....

 

"But he's RICH and FAMOUS."

 

Yeah, yeah, so is Paul Giamatti, and I don't see women knocking themselves out to masturbate over him.

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If he's hot himself, I don't see why not.

 

From my experiences, hot men have it the best out of all creatures on this Earth. Don't get me wrong. Hot women have it good too. But they have more competition from average looking women.

 

Hot men don't have nearly as much competition from average looking men.

 

Hot men will be approached by women from all over the rainbow while average men won't get approached that much.

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If he's hot himself, I don't see why not.

 

From my experiences, hot men have it the best out of all creatures on this Earth. Don't get me wrong. Hot women have it good too. But they have more competition from average looking women.

 

Hot men don't have nearly as much competition from average looking men.

 

Hot men will be approached by women from all over the rainbow while average men won't get approached that much.

 

Wait, I thought women didn't do the pursuing and men do all the work? It's really hard to keep the tenets straight around here.

 

It could be because I've approached a lot of "average-looking" and even "ugly" men.

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Tom Cruise was a sexy symbol for a LOT of women for a long time, and he's 5'7".

 

Oh, ladies, wait for it....

 

"But he's RICH and FAMOUS."

 

Yeah, yeah, so is Paul Giamatti, and I don't see women knocking themselves out to masturbate over him.

 

 

Haha, you masturbate over Tom Cruise!! Are you imagining him risking the whole world being catastrophically destroyed in order to save just your life, but then some how he miraculously saves you and the world nearly killing himself 20 times in the effort?

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I don't think that's the case myself. I have seen many so called "hot women" who act like princesses and their men seem to take it no matter how wealthy or successful he is. I have also seen many horrible brute men who treat women badly and have women all over them from all walks of life. Does it really matter who is rich or poor, who is more or less attractive, or whatever else there is that we measure? I had my old hillbilly boyfriend meet and marry a woman with two children (one from each previous marriage) barely a year after he broke it off with me, because he said he did not want to have children. Instead of my easy going attitude he got a shrew who thought she was all that who ended up using him financially, divorcing him, running off and marrying husband #4 and has since divorced husband #4. He could've had something better than that - in terms of looks, background and personal wealth - even something just a little bit better than that - but he chose the trash he deserved.

 

I think it has to do with temperament. All kinds of relationships are based on tolerances, and you have to want to stay in the situation rather than let little things anger or upset you. All the wealth on earth cannot help if you are being beaten, but love can help if you are in abject poverty. Think about it.

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Some hot women value other things besides money.

 

Yep... mostly Christian ones though. And even then it's (obviously) a subset of Christians. Plenty of "Christians" are rich hypocrites who just go to a building every week to feel better about themselves. There are also a lot of them who are genuinely good people. Some Christian women may have even avoided a lot of the corruption of western society. OP, your best bet is looking there. But if you're a hardcore atheist or otherwise just can't tolerate Christians... well I don't see much hope, honestly. I'm sort of facing the same problem in some ways.

 

... also, the fact that you demand a "hot" girl while being against a girl demanding you being "wealthy" is obviously hypocritical.

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