MarkV Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Further to my previous post I am really struggling with the breakup of my girlfriend I was with for 6 months. Throughout our relationship we had great times (went to Rome,silly games,staying over etc,my bday). She ended it two weeks ago because she kept asking about my past and when I finally told her a few truths she went crazy saying that I was a liar etc and that she thinks iv been hiding stuff from her. Not the case,just didn't want to talk about my past as its irrelevant. It's like she finally got her wish of constantly thinking I was doing something wrong. I was always faithful,loving and included her in all aspects of my life. I tried for a week to reason and speak to her but everything I did was not enough in her eyes and she blamed me for not giving a dam about trying to save it. Every time I spoke to her I got anger,abuse and was made to feel guilty and a bad guy. She did also hit me out of anger last week. She is very insecure and I tried to battle through it with her but this blew everything apart. It's her grandads funeral tomorrow and I haven't spoke to her since Monday as its not getting me anywhere. But again she will think I don't give a dam because I'm not contacting her. I guess it takes two to tango but what do you all think? You can't help who you love but I can't stop thinking about this
Chi townD Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Dude, walk away.. If she's that insecure about your past or...whatever... then you need to walk. Especially, if she becoming physically violent with you. Can't you see the progression? First, it was just being mad to yelling at you and being humiliating to you to being physically abusive. It's not getting better. And NO ONE deserves to be hit! EVER!!! That should be a deal breaker for you. You don't hit or beat the person you supposedly love. Send flowers to the funeral and start NC. Time to move on. 1
BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I'm gonna echo Chitown here. If she flipped out over your past, AND after trying to reason with her she still says that you don't give a damn..? Sounds a bit delusional to me. And the whole hitting thing, I woulda bounced, then and there. Hitting is not cool. Like Chi said, send flowers, apologize for the loss, and move on. Sounds like this girl has SERIOUS trust issues, and if you do get back together, it's gonna be more drama guaranteed.
Cola Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 She's insecure. She heard something she didn't like and she's not handled it well at all. Seems like you're both hurting. If it were me, I'd text her tomorrow and tell her you're thinking of her. Nothing more though. I personally wouldn't call it a day, unless you really want to. If you don't, then leave her be a little while. Let her calm down. One argument after another doesn't help anything. 1
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