pelip Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Hello, I posted a bit of my story here awhile back, but will explain again. My ex and I broke up around 5 months ago after being together for two years and living together. While together I made some mistakes and talked to girls, but never cheated. After we broke up, I tried apologizing, telling her how I felt, and even begged. Everything you shouldn't do basically. Finally I had enough and went no contact for around three months. I messaged her a couple weeks ago and she responded right away. At first we were talking about random things until she said "Why did you message me?". I simply responded by saying, "Sorry I won't again, didn't mean to impose." She then proceeded to tell me that I wasn't imposing and she was just wondering while sending messages nonstop for the next 20 minutes while I didn't reply. The next day I decide to start talking to her again and she starts bringing up the past and our relationship. She kept saying things like, "It's probably pointless to talk about it." I would agree with her and then she would simply say, "Well, maybe we can talk about it." She asks me to call her which I do and we talk a bit, then she starts crying and saying she hasn't talked to anyone about the breakup and is still upset about it, but just trying to forget. We get off the phone and she then messages me apologizing for crying. She keeps going on and on about the things I did that upset her, so I felt since she was telling me these things that I should tell her the things that upset me. Once I started doing that she didn't really want to hear it. The next day she starts saying things that were little inside things that we'd say to one another while we were together like most couples do. I finally end up just coming out w it and telling her I wanted to try and work it out and she says, "I don't want that just let me go." Obviously the whole time she was trying to bait me in and get a reaction from me and once she did, she just cut it off. Started ignoring me after that. I know all she wanted to do was get a reaction and see if I still cared. It's obvious. I guess I just wanted to rant about it. I just can't believe she of all people would be this way towards me. Crazy.
CelticGibson Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 "I just can't believe she of all people would be this way towards me. Crazy." What's so special about her? Of course she was baiting you. Listen, just because you think she's "different" to all others, the truth is she's not. They all do it because it's a human trait to want to know if their ex is still pining over them. Call it an ego boost or whatever but it's no more unique than any of the thousands of threads on this site.... Go No Contact and stay No Contact until she doesn't pull your strings anymore. Time to cut those strings Pinochio... 1
Author pelip Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 obviously. i know what it is. just honestly wanted to vent. 1
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