chida37 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Hi Love Shack Community, About 2 months ago I came here in search of a method to reconcile my relationship with my ex girlfriend. I constantly posted about what to do, what to say etc... But eventually I finally came to realize that no matter what I did or said would not have brought her back. Two months ago I went NC, deleted and cleaned out everything that had to do with her. I must admit the first month was unbearable I wanted to break NC everyday. But I'm here to share how I got past it. The best thing that I did for myself was hang out with my friends as often as I could, redirecting my attention. When I did think about her, I didn't try to stop myself but rather let it run it's course. Because when you try to stop thinking about him/her you fixate on them instead. I kept myself busy and went on dates with other women. Most importantly I started bettering myself eg. Working out. This is the most important thing you must do, make yourself better because you start focusing on yourself instead of your ex. Obviously I've made mistakes through my 2 months of NC. In fact it was a recent mistake. I sent her an email telling her that I forgive her and wished her the best. I don't advise anyone doing this unless they know for sure they are completely over their ex and even at that point there is no point for contacting them. Anyway, it's been a long journey but I finally made it!! Thank you love shack. 2
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