OSCAR_BUSTOS21 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I was drunk on saturday and replied to one of her texts about missing me, I was really annoyed. The next day was a pain and I ended up reactivating facebook and asked her if she would untag me from our couples photos, after deleting some of our mutual friends and her . This may seem nasty but I'm tired of this merry go round, texts were coming thick and fast and she said I was being nasty. Why? I'm really trying to get on with my life, its been 5 months. Anyway I keep getting I love u, I miss u texts. What does this girl want, I've asked her back 2months ago and she said she couldn't at the mo as she needed to find herself??? Opinions please?
d0620 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Have you asked her to come back lately? Clearly you still love her or you wouldn't have responded to her texts. 1
Leigh 87 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 She is being a biatch. I really feel for you... Man, if my ex reached out like that, without actually wanting me BACK.. it would be agonizing (as I seriously loved him) Wow. What she is doing is really cruel... She can miss you all she wants: she has NO right to reach out and rope you in, unless she wants you back. Otherwise, she should know that you do not just want to be "friends" She would care about you, but she is putting her needs first here: she cannot quiet leave you alone, yet she does not want to let you go... so it is easier for her to string you along with false hope, than to just let you go (cos she will "miss" you) She could have realised that there were no other guys out there that she liked as much as she liked you, and since she misses the time you has together, she probably thinks it is cool to keep you in for the ride, until she you know, decides that she wants. I mean it is totally fair on you to wait around while she decides if she wants to be with you.
McGriff Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Just look at my recent threads...went through the same **** man. It's confusing, patronizing, frustrating, and stressful. And I'm a laid back kind of guy. But I had my fill, and "ended" whatever it was we had last weekend. Feel better, but I do miss her. At least I'm not confused anymore.
Chi townD Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Anyway I keep getting I love u, I miss u texts. What does this girl want, I've asked her back 2months ago and she said she couldn't at the mo as she needed to find herself??? Opinions please? I REALLY hate when they use this one. "Tell you what, look in the mirror. HOLY SH*T!! There you are!!!!" Just stupid. What it REALLY means is this: I need to FIND myself in other guys beds. I need to FIND out of these other guys are better than what I have in Oscar. I need to FIND out if there's someone better for me. And if I don't FIND what I'm looking for, then I can FIND myself going back to my back up plan named Oscar. Dude, you are no ones second choice and you are no ones back up plan. You are not a consolation prize. You deserve a girl that WANTS to be with you. She's out there. Go FIND her. One day, she'll notice her back up plan is gone and it will be too late for her. 3
aisuru Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I REALLY hate when they use this one. "Tell you what, look in the mirror. HOLY SH*T!! There you are!!!!" I literally laughed out loud and scared my assistant at work. 3
CelticGibson Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Those "I love you " "I miss you" texts are nothing. Well actually they are just fleeting moments of emotion that spur her to type them out and send them. It does not mean that these fleeting moments are how she really feels. They are like hunger pangs, here one moment and gone the next. If she REALLY missed you or REALLY loved you, she would not end it with short texts like that, she would come right out and explain WHY she loves you and WHY she misses you....
Chi townD Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I agree. The I miss you's and I love you's are nothing more than words to keep you on the hook. To keep you waiting on the sidelines. Fill you with some false hope so you don't go looking elsewhere.
BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I agree. The I miss you's and I love you's are nothing more than words to keep you on the hook. To keep you waiting on the sidelines. Fill you with some false hope so you don't go looking elsewhere. Chi is killing it with the great advice NC NC NC the love you and miss you texts are her safety nets to keep stringing you along. You had a relapse, we all do, but your correcting it. Stay the course and keep on with the NC. Seems like she wants the attention so if you deny her that maybe she'll get the hint.
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