vikirahul999 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 My gf cheated on me with person in her office she said she feels bad about me but she loves him now after 2yrs of relationship.That guy after sleeping with her within few days time says that he talked with his parents about her and they said no and he can't go against their will as his mom have astama,and dad also have something and also have responsibility of some kind so he said now they can't b together.He asked her not to contact her or call her but she still calls him even though he didn't pick up her call and rarely msg(I don't know what they talk) Everybody knows that guy used her but she can't see that and she also have very bad past before me.All this happened in jan 2013. And now she said she loves him and he is nice guy and all and claims she hasn't done wrong even though she cheated on me. Yesterday it all got dirty she said something bad about my family and i slapped her i am feeling bad but also i want to get over her??plz help me i want to break all contact but i m scared that i won't be able to do that.I want to move on i m tired of this **** she been using me from past 6 month i know that still i let her use me.I m lonely,frustrated,sand and angry plz help
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Don't hit anyone, full stop. Quit letting her use you. Go complete No Contact. (Read my signature/link). Sorted. This is all you need in order to move on. If you stay stuck where you are, that's on you. Your choice.
CelticGibson Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Jeez man. Don't resort to violence. Be a man, walk away and never ever strike out in anger like that again, no matter how hurt or used you feel. The most important thing for you now is to take control of your life. Take control of how YOU deal with these feelings. She's history now and you need to stay No Contact for as long as it takes to get these feelings out of your system. Start immediately because if you are this bad, it's only going to get worse and you could get into a lot of trouble....
crazy1234 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 My gf cheated on me with person in her office she said she feels bad about me but she loves him now after 2yrs of relationship.That guy after sleeping with her within few days time says that he talked with his parents about her and they said no and he can't go against their will as his mom have astama,and dad also have something and also have responsibility of some kind so he said now they can't b together.He asked her not to contact her or call her but she still calls him even though he didn't pick up her call and rarely msg(I don't know what they talk) Everybody knows that guy used her but she can't see that and she also have very bad past before me.All this happened in jan 2013. And now she said she loves him and he is nice guy and all and claims she hasn't done wrong even though she cheated on me. Yesterday it all got dirty she said something bad about my family and i slapped her i am feeling bad but also i want to get over her??plz help me i want to break all contact but i m scared that i won't be able to do that.I want to move on i m tired of this **** she been using me from past 6 month i know that still i let her use me.I m lonely,frustrated,sand and angry plz help Nc is you'r best shot..if u want her out of you'r life for real..than stop talking to her plus she cant even see how wrong she was to you so why do you wanna stick around such a cruel person anyways?i know its easier said than done bt this is you'r best shot.And ofcourse dont hit her nomatter what she said or has done.
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