CARL45 Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I've spent the past several months trying not to having any comfort zones when it comes to meeting people. One thing that I've done is give everyone I see eye contact. Another thing that I do is greeting people that pass by me. When it comes to dating I just walk up to women that I find attractive and just talk to them. One thing I've noticed is that all the fears that I've had for the longest time are unfounded. Most of the fears I had were with other people seeing what I was doing and making fun of me,but what I found was people don't care. Most people are in their own head and concerned with things in their own life. Now when it comes to me talking to a person you don't know on the street things get interesting. One thing I've noticed is you can tell people that are really social immediately. The people that are very social will want to talk for hours and sometimes I get into some really interesting conversations with them. Some people will look at me like your a martian or just ignore me. I really like just talking to people about their day or just simply asking a question. Something I noticed with women that's interesting is that for the longest time I use to think I was really bad with some women because I would ask a question and the woman I was talking to would say " I don't know or I guess". What I found out was that some women I more introverted or nervous, so just talking to people a lot opened my eyes. One thing I wanted to add too is I'm also an introvert. Extroverted women in a strange way were the one's I liked talking to the most because they would become involved more in the conversation. Has anyone else had the same experience. 1
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