banksy2020 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Ok b4 I start I am not expecting her to wait or to jump into a relationship right now, but I am going to jail and me and this girl really seemed to b hitting it off and I really beleive she was into me b4 all this happened, after she found out she said all she could offer is friendship and we ended up hanign out but she slowly started to stop contacting me and to get back to me, I truly beleive me messing up hurt her, she was pretty awesome too and I dont know what to do about the situation, I will be gone 6 months plus, if she is single when I get out should i try to pursue her again?
Author banksy2020 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 its alcohol related, and really even if I try and better myself?
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 You're going away for 6 months. I would concentrate on making sure you do not fall victim to the prisoner mentality of getting worse instead of getting better. Watch who you mix with, find good company, and don't repeat the episode. Then, when you come out, think about moving on - and see how it goes then. But you can hardly blame her for distancing herself from someone who's going away for a while and who will have a criminal record. Focus on you.
Author banksy2020 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 Its all county time, no prison stuff, and I know what the problem is its alcohol, but I was ready to start school again and have a job(i can get work release) and I will have the job when I get out too, but I just feel bad for ruining this, like I said she was incredible, she could make me smile at the drop of a dime, and we got a lot in common and are senses of humor are the same, jeeze man I think of that jiim morrison quote right now "I see myself as an intelligent, sensitive human, with the soul of a clown which forces me to blow it at the most important moments" I am focusing on myself but this is really laying on my heart right now and I keep seeing her name everywhere now or stupid things that remind me of inside jokes we have etc.
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 yeah,heh.... all great.... No. She's made her position clear. Right now, she's not interested. Wait the 6 months, but I doubt time will be any kind of healer.
Author banksy2020 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 It's that black and whit huh? N pretty much nothing I can do, I mean I can see the impact right off the bat but its a fixable problem I believe, n can't u fall outta love can't u fall back in?
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Don't girls like bad boys haha 'Bad', yes. Irresponsible, reckless, damaged and criminal? No.
Author banksy2020 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 The haha was to signal a joke, don't have to rub my fave in the dirt even more, remember don't judge others for sinning differently than u
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I'm not judging you at all. Just pointing out what's true. The law has tried you, judged you and found you guilty of a crime. You now have to pay society back for what you did. If I could, I would visit, talk with you and we would get you, this mess and the world straight. But I can't. So you must face this on your own, put things right and vow, for yourself, to be a better person - for yourself. You will develop maturity and learn things most young men of your age will never have access to. Use what you are given, wisely.
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