itsmyfault Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Hi All. I will keep it short and sweet. I met a girl at a bar, we chatted for a while and before I got chance to ask for her number she asked for mine and said she'd be in touch. She got in touch and asked when I could meet her in the next week, we arranged a meet this weekend and then she said she'd contact me at some point in the week. That's what I here asking actually. Normally when i've met people we have been in txt tennis to start with. I don't think its because she wasn't interested because she made all the effort. Can anyone shed some light on this for me perhaps?
AsonUnique Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Hi All. I will keep it short and sweet. I met a girl at a bar, we chatted for a while and before I got chance to ask for her number she asked for mine and said she'd be in touch. She got in touch and asked when I could meet her in the next week, we arranged a meet this weekend and then she said she'd contact me at some point in the week. That's what I here asking actually. Normally when i've met people we have been in txt tennis to start with. I don't think its because she wasn't interested because she made all the effort. Can anyone shed some light on this for me perhaps? Just to be clear, she asked for your number, followed thru with contacting you, set a date to meet, and that was the last you've heard from her...with the meeting date approaching this upcoming weekend? Go ahead and send her a text and ask how she's doing, it really seems like she's interested in you, she made a LOT of the initial effort that the guy usually has to make, so maybe she's sitting back and waiting to see if you're into it. 1
Author itsmyfault Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 Yes, We have not spoken since then (Saturday) plan to meet this weekend. finished it by saying she would contact me in the week. The only reason I havent sent anything is because I didn't want to come across as desperate and risk scaring her off. I did take quite a liking to her though.
Author itsmyfault Posted May 22, 2013 Author Posted May 22, 2013 I sent her a txt this morning. Got a reply about mid afternoon. and we exchanged a few texts. I don't get it really, she made all the effort but other than that I dont feel like she has any interest? I guess I just feel weird about meeting someone again after a week without having got to know anything about them at all. 1
mortensorchid Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 If you want an answer, call her. Texts are ok for immediate solution but a real answer comes with the voice. 1
AsonUnique Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 HAHAHAHA CC & Mortensorchid....using the phone to call someone, riiiiight. What is this, the 50's? LoL seriously, you two must be amish. (I'm kidding) 1
todreaminblue Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 HAHAHAHA CC & Mortensorchid....using the phone to call someone, riiiiight. What is this, the 50's? LoL seriously, you two must be amish. (I'm kidding) ...funny.........its a bit liek that isnt it...calling someone.....i miss the twirly dial thing....where you stuck your fingers in and twirled the numbers......loved that noise....smilin...deb
zebracolors Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I would advocate for calling too, if it can be done at a good time,(shouldn't be anything wrong with asking when best times to call). But if for example I am at my job, I'd be in trouble for taking personal calls(that are not emergencies). Where with texting, you may get a moment to pause and reply. And as long as he understands I'm working, so my replies may be delayed, everything is fine. Besides, instead of having text conversations, Id rather save the real chat for when we actually meet up. Maybe this girl is similar in opinion. Also if Im into a guy I'll want to initiate some contact and plan a meet up. But I also don't want to annoy him (he may not be able to reply away either), so just so he knows I'm still into him, I'll text him every couple or few days to ask how he is or share information.
icedlatte Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 This reminds me of . Just call! It's not that hard.
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