miklos Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 She is dating my ex's roommate. She sat with my ex for graduation instead of me. I felt betrayed because I considered her a close friend. Made me doubt if i were even a close friend. She could have told me before hand that she would sit with my ex and not make me randomly find out. I still have feelings for my ex. I texted her friday night asking her if she wanted to sit with me for graduation. she did not reply. At the graduation location, i see her to give her the stole i bought for her on Friday. We had gone to get the commencement tickets together too the day before. I went to see my family and when I went to go to where graduates were meeting, i saw her standing with my ex and two random girls. i felt betrayed. I called her to ask her where she was and she said she was with my ex. I was like "oh ok then have fun" and I hung up. I felt betrayed, angry, and sad. I was expecting to sit with her since I felt like she was a close friend. Ever since, I have been doubting what our friendship really means. I know she is not property but she knew all the drama I had with my ex and should have thought that by her sitting with him I would be affected. I dont know what to do. Should I cut my friendship? We are going to be in the same study abroad program and I planned to hang out with her and have lots of fun but now I dont want to anymore. Because in the end she will prefer my ex. Why am I so bothered that she even sat with my ex and not me? I really wanted to sit with her ugh Thank you loveshack 1
Emilia Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 should I still talk to her or not? If it bothers you this much then no and find someone else to be friends with
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