BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 So there is a really cool girl that I talk with at work, but I don't know if she's into me or just being friendly. I've been out of the game for bit and am oblivious to picking up on any sort of signals; especially in situations like this. Now she is a really cool and friendly girl and interacts with everyone pretty much the same way, but I can't tell whether I should make a move or just leave it be. Any thoughts, suggestions, and or tips?
JuneJulySeptember Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 So there is a really cool girl that I talk with at work, but I don't know if she's into me or just being friendly. I've been out of the game for bit and am oblivious to picking up on any sort of signals; especially in situations like this. Now she is a really cool and friendly girl and interacts with everyone pretty much the same way, but I can't tell whether I should make a move or just leave it be. Any thoughts, suggestions, and or tips? Make a move and find out ASAP. The sooner you get a yes/no, the very much better it will be for you. 1
othersideofthepillow Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Next time you guys interact, drop the idea of getting a drink outside of work to hang out. If she's not interested or has a BF you will be able to find out than. 1
nerd Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Yeah, just ask her out so the pedestal you have her on doesn't get any taller. It's much easier earlier on. 1
youngnlove89 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 So there is a really cool girl that I talk with at work, but I don't know if she's into me or just being friendly. I've been out of the game for bit and am oblivious to picking up on any sort of signals; especially in situations like this. Now she is a really cool and friendly girl and interacts with everyone pretty much the same way, but I can't tell whether I should make a move or just leave it be. Any thoughts, suggestions, and or tips? Thoughts---you are cute, she must have some sort of interest in you Suggestions---be a man, ask her out!! Tips---when on your date together, always hold the door open for her, don't talk about ex's, and always be sure to make her laugh Welcome to LS, by the way 2
Author BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 Both good suggestions. I think I'm going to try a mix of both. I'm almost positive she's single. Thanks peeps.
JuneJulySeptember Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Both good suggestions. I think I'm going to try a mix of both. I'm almost positive she's single. Thanks peeps. Might as well ask out YnL89 while you're at it. You've already won over half the battle. I think you guys make a cute couple. 1
Treasa Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Because she's a colleague, I'd advise thinking it over thoroughly....but if you're sure it would be ok no matter what happens, just ask her out.
Author BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 That's another reason I'm kinda hesitant. I'm kinda leery about 'fishing off the company pier' I'm gonna see how it plays out for a bit then maybe bite the bullet. Thanks YnL89 your a looker too! 1
youngnlove89 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 That's another reason I'm kinda hesitant. I'm kinda leery about 'fishing off the company pier' I'm gonna see how it plays out for a bit then maybe bite the bullet. Thanks YnL89 your a looker too! Hey, if it doesn't work out, I'll be your back up plan
Author BrokenHeartsClub Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 Hey, if it doesn't work out, I'll be your back up plan Hey OH!! I like where your heads at:D
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