cooldude2060 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Ive known this girl for over a year now through college and we flirt alot and text eachother often.. we go cinema with friends often and we ALWAYS sit next to eachother and we hold hands and lean on eachother and sometimes look intoeachothers eyes. Out of nowhere she went cold on me and started to ignore me, we went back and forth for several months and only now we've started getting closer again, we went to the movies with friends again today and on the way i offered her my hand to hold and she pulled away, so then we went into the movies and she made the effort to sit next to me we were teasing eachother at the start and she grabbed my hand and i kind of pulled away so later into the film i went to grab her hand and she told me to leave her alone and she ignored me throughout the whole film. She didnt even look at me once and was talking to our friend laughing and didn't seem phased at all Where do i go from here, this has been going on for too long and its started to hurt alot, everyone says she likes me but she acts so strange. She hasn't had much experience with boys, very self conscious and i think is afraid of commitment. She shows obvious signs she likes me at times but goes cold on me and it really confuses me, and she befriends my friends all of a sudden. A friend of ours asked her if she likes me and her response was that she feels really comfortable with me and she just likes me as a friend. But if that was the case why does she flirt with my friends purposely in front of me and play games with me. She even told me to stop playing hard to get whilst we were teasing eachother, its like she wants to get a reaction from me which i try to never give. Once i said a long time ago i would take her to the movies just me and her and she brought it up saying "jordans going to take me to the cinema!" and i never asked her. Ive never done anything just me and her. One time we went to the movies with friends and we saw three movies and we sat next to eachother and we held hands and leant on eachother throughout the movies and i really felt something special. Then the next day in school she was very flirty again and it felt like something good was happening, until straight after that day she started ignoring me and we haven't been as close since.
Aerrie Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Dude OVER A YEAR? And you yet waste your time? Friendzone if I ever saw one. I am surprised man race is not yet extinct. Move on to other girls. That might actually be the best way to get her interested as well, if there ever was any chance. When she goes cold on you, she is probably going after some other dude and then when it fails, she goes back to her friend-zoned pansy to have some fun. PogoStick actually gives sound advice
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