Flutterbyme Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 We had an amazing first date. He was lovely and we kissed a few times. He said he keeps promises and would definitely see me again. He even text me on the way home. And he text me first the next day! Then I got a text at midnight after LC all day saying I think I love you x Wow!! He basically said the next day his friends got his phone while he was asleep. Then the texts got shorter and less frequent. We were talking lots before! So after two days of not much I asked if he would be up for meeting again and no pressure and to be honest. He said he did and sorry he has been busy with work exams and assignments etc.a but of a chat but no longer seems interested in how I am and I'm always the one to initiate. Even though he said yes to meeting me he didn't give me any idea to when. Shall I leave it or keep trying ? I don't want to annoy him. Sorry I've posted a similar post a few days ago but this has more info in it
Mrlonelyone Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 If they are a student who works this is the time for exams and lots of work.
BluEyeL Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 No, you should just give up and find someone else. I'm sorry. If he was interested, he wouldn't be able to help himself and he'd initiate. 1
KraftDinner Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 When I was in university, we all worked and studied full-time and still managed to have relationships. And to get in contact with each other. And guess what? This was before the days of texting. If we were on campus we'd have to find a payphone to call each other. Texting takes literally 4 seconds. He isnt being straight with you. I hate that. Let me ask you this: what did you do when he texted the I love you thing? I know he's saying it was his friend, but what was your reaction? This is very important to know.
PutARingOnIt Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Busy = crap. Men use the "busy" excuse with females they don't want to be bothered with. Like someone else said, it only takes a few seconds to send a text. He's not interested. 1
Author Flutterbyme Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 When I was in university, we all worked and studied full-time and still managed to have relationships. And to get in contact with each other. And guess what? This was before the days of texting. If we were on campus we'd have to find a payphone to call each other. Texting takes literally 4 seconds. He isnt being straight with you. I hate that. Let me ask you this: what did you do when he texted the I love you thing? I know he's saying it was his friend, but what was your reaction? This is very important to know. Thanks for reply it makes sense! To the I love you thing I put: Really? Are you drunk? He put : Nope sober I said: Where did that come from He said: His heart I said: you hadn't text all day I thought you didn't want to speak He said: I didn't know what to say. I said: how long you been thinking He said : since last night I did put a me too at the end. Not to the I love you but the thinking about him and all this was whilst I was out partying with a girlfriend.
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