moonlight1 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 I struggle with this too. Its been about 12 days since he broke my heart. He went from telling me he was inlove with me and wanted to go the distance to telling me he has no feelings for me whatsoever. I had no warning that it was coming, nothing at all... even the day before he had the nerve to tell me he loved me. Ive been through breakups before but never have i felt like this. He told me i did nothing wrong and he didnt know why this was happening. Thats why it kills me, he gave me no real reason. I dont know how to accept it and believe it i suppose. All his friends, family told me how they couldnt believe how happy he was with me and he was inlove, i really believed it too. Its been NC for 5 days and honestly i dont want to contact him... on the last day i saw him i did everything i could to get him back or at the very least get some answers but i got neither. I love him so much that i know i have to let him go. I guess ill have to find closure on my own. I have never invested so much of my heart, time, thoughts, hopes and dreams into anyone like i did with him... only to be completely crushed
Jono85 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 haven't read through this thread yet, but I just made a thread exactly on this issue. I found an awesome lenghty artice online from a woman that really made a lot of sense. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/396045-don-t-they-care-about-me-didn-t-i-matter-article#post4911841 that's the thread. you'll find a link to the article in there. 1
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