theone44 Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 My lady finally broke up with me for good,but it was 3 months ago.....she was my best friend to,but it was my own fault that she left me for good this time. Boy it really hurt,when u truly lose someone u love,but i took it like a man and move on. Now i haven't heard from her since July,plus i haven't contacted her either,plus i didn't do any of the begging,pleading,calling and e-mailing in trying to get her back to. Nor did i did any violent or any stalking,but just left her completely alone. Well the reason she left was, because she wanted to be friends,but i couldn't,so i got angry a couple of time and did raise my voice a little since i never done before....and that i believe, which scare her away. Also i accuse her of lying about her phone being broken,and that really piss her off,but there was a couple other things i did before that......Like some said,your bad behavior with a woman will one day cost u...and it did. I know from my heart she will never want to be with me again,but i can accept that. I hope i will one day get a second chance with her,even it only "just friends"
Mundy Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Well done i am in the no contact phase at the moment and it is hard ! Just wish i was at your stage that i did not think about her. This is the second time we have tried the no contact. The first time we tried it we ended up dating again for about a month. This time i have to stick to it !
Scott S Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Originally posted by theone44 I know from my heart she will never want to be with me again,but i can accept that. I hope i will one day get a second chance with her,even it only "just friends" I'm sorry to hear of your break-up. Unfortunately that's just the way it goes, sometimes. You do seem to be taking it reasonalby well, though. I believe you will be OK eventually. Try not to dwell excessively on the past, simply learn from the mistakes you made here, & be careful not to repeat them in a future relationship. _______________________ If a man eats a plate of pasta and a plate of antipasto, do they cancel each other out, leaving the man still hungry?
girlie123 Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 hi everyone, i've been broken up with my boyfriend for about a week. our relationship just got too serious for college and we could never just be "dating," it was an all-or-nothing thing. we dated for a year and a half. this past weekend we tried going out with our regular group of friends, but he said he couldn't stand to see me talking to other boys (even in a friendly way). after this weekend he said he wanted to try no contact. i didn't think he would make it even a day. i thought he would have called, or texted me, or emailed, but nothing. there were a few messages on my computer but when i messaged him back, he did not respond. i really miss just having someone call and check in on me during the day, or watch tv with me. my friends have helped because they invite me to hang out so i don't think about him, but it's still so hard to be without someone you love. how long has it taken you guys to feel okay with the no contact idea? what can i do to make myself feel better? i have always been the independent one in our relationship, but i literally feel like my heart is breaking... and it's the worst feeling ever.
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