banksy2020 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 I had to delete this girl from facebook because I like her and she didn’t like me back, but I thought she did, we talked a lot hung out, flirted, had little inside jokes but I figured outta sight outta mind you know and the next day she txt me all freaking out to me, saying I dont know If i can forgive you again if you decide to try and come back into my life, your always mean to me(which I was but I havent in a long time honestly) and she told me to have a nice life. Is the only way for someone to find out you unfriended them to be creeping out your fb page? I figured she wouldn’t even notice I deleted her but BAM not even a full day later she was txtn freaking, I explained the reason I did it it because of how I feel, but with her reaction I feel like she was interested all along and was maybe playing hard to get and I feel horrible about the whole situation, I want to talk to her but I feel dumb, she also said if I just didnt delete her without an explaination she would have been fine with it because she felt like she did something wrong, but idk about that this was pretty directly after the fact I asked her to be more so she had to know what was up? what should I do?
ForeverHopeful1 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Well, you acted like a teenager. You probably are a teenager though. PHEW! Seriously, how old are you though? I will say, she DIDNT do anything wrong. All she did was not like you back. You then deleted her because she doesnt want to date you (childish.) So, to me, I would probably ignore you, but she (is probably a teenager too, where the entire world revolves around facebook,) and she thought it was rude of her friend (you) to delete her JUST because she doesnt have THOSE feelings for you. You should feel silly. Its not her fault she isnt attracted to you. I mean come on, now you lost a friend and someone you like. At least you would have had her as a friend otherwise. If you had sent her a message saying that you like her, but it is too hard for you to continue being friends at the moment, it may have gone better for you. I hope you two can clear the air. Speak to her and tell her your emotions got the best of you, and you are sorry for deleting her.
Author banksy2020 Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 I am 20, but it was for my sanity, I just want more with her we click and we laugh and like I said flirt and tease each other and I guess call me selfish but I just couldn't handle being just friends, I thought it was better to jus close the door, and ya I see what you are saying tho, but why would she be creeping my facebook, I mean we were friends to a point but not that good of friends and we hadnt even communicated on fb in like 2 weeks, and it really seemed to pinch a nerve with her, I think there was something more, than she is letting on, but right now I am too proud to say nething to her sigh
hppr Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 LOL Facebook. Anyways I had the same sorts of experiences when I was younger, they like the attention you give them but they really aren't into you. So when one of their support network (ie, you) decides to do something else with his time they freak the **** out. Eventually she'll calm down, someone else will fill the void, whatever. I guess you could try again with her after waiting a little while, maybe some on-again, off-again contact and then meet up but you will probably end up in the same place.
CC12 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 but with her reaction I feel like she was interested all along and was maybe playing hard to get She rejected you when you told her how you felt, so I doubt she was trying to play hard to get. That's not really how people play hard to get. You really burned a bridge by throwing a snit and deleting her. Apologizing might smooth things over. But then again, you don't seem to want anything to do with her unless she's "with" you. You kind of tossed her like hot garbage. So probably just leave it alone, yeah? She seems done with you as well, at this point. It's okay to stop being friends with someone if you have feelings you can't handle. But you should at least tell them you can't talk to them anymore. And try not to put yourself in these situations in the future. If you're interested in a girl, ask her out on dates. Don't just be her buddy. It's so common for these friendships to get really weird and for people's feelings to get hurt. Be more direct.
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