Aicha Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 (edited) hey everyone i just spent an amazing weekend with my LDR SO. i'd say we are pretty serious about each other but no talk of marriage yet as he have met twice after talking online for 2 years. he already says he loves me etc. when we were at a restaurant he told me to look at cute kids that were there and said he wants a son. and when we went shopping he started getting happy when he saw a baby and stopped to take a look and ask how old the baby was and what her name was. just curious what you guys think. was he hinting that he wants us to have a baby? or does he just like children? thanks, looking forward to your responses Edited May 20, 2013 by Aicha
LittleTiger Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I would hope he's not hinting about babies if you've only met twice! How long have you actually spent in each other's company so far?
Author Aicha Posted May 20, 2013 Author Posted May 20, 2013 I would hope he's not hinting about babies if you've only met twice! How long have you actually spent in each other's company so far? we have been skyping for nearly two years in a LDR. and spendabout a week together. we are both very much crazy about each other. not sure if he was hinting about the future
ExpatInItaly Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 (edited) I don't think he's hinting, really. I think he just would like to have children someday and his excitement about that came through naturally. if you've only actually spent a few days together, it would be extremely premature to hint about babies together. Edited May 20, 2013 by ExpatInItaly
LittleTiger Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 we have been skyping for nearly two years in a LDR. and spendabout a week together. we are both very much crazy about each other. not sure if he was hinting about the future Yes, I understand that. I'm in a long term LDR myself so I know all about those feelings. I have no doubt you are crazy about each other. However, two years on Skype or not, I would hope he is not hinting about babies after you have only spent a week in each other's company! If you really believe you know him well enough to be thinking about having his baby, it shouldn't be too difficult to ask him if he was hinting about your future.
justwhoiam Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 just curious what you guys think. was he hinting that he wants us to have a baby? or does he just like children? No. I guess he wants a family some day, with children. Right now he's having a relationship with you, and after 2 years and 2 visits, it might get serious. Maybe he's making decisions in his mind. He needs to know what you think about children, if you like them, how do you feel around them... I guess that a good attitude would reassure him. There are women who think: I don't want children and I'll never have any! Or they're simply annoyed by the presence of children. So maybe he's just naturally seeing if you have a maternal side, besides other important qualities.
Author Aicha Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 he is 36 so at the age where he is settled and may want to settle down. he did bring up his plans to have a son on a date. will never know i guess unless i wait for more hints to have conversation on the topic
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