jerrysays Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 before my current girlfriend dated me she was talking to this one guy who she ****ed a couple of times he texted her when i was with her and said "u wanna ****?" she said "lol really" he said "yes but im out of town" she said "well no" i told her her texts made it seem like she wanted to...i told her she should have said no and that she is seeing someone..she said she still said no and that i should be able to trust her. we had a major argument was i in the right?
Phoebe Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 before my current girlfriend dated me she was talking to this one guy who she ****ed a couple of times he texted her when i was with her and said "u wanna ****?" she said "lol really" he said "yes but im out of town" she said "well no" i told her her texts made it seem like she wanted to...i told her she should have said no and that she is seeing someone..she said she still said no and that i should be able to trust her. we had a major argument was i in the right? I'd be very suspicious. I agree that she should just have said no and that she's seeing someone.
Treasa Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 It makes me insane when people don't use complete sentences. I have no ****ing idea what her replies to him meant. She could have replied with, "pepperoni pizza" and I would not be more confused. Arguments are best solved when it's not about finding out who's "right" and who's "wrong."
Cindira Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I've been on the receiving end of some of these "joking" texts, and if I'm in a relationship with someone, my reply is either "I'm seeing someone, back off" or no reply at all. Just sayin'.
nerd Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 Arguments are best solved when it's not about finding out who's "right" and who's "wrong." Oh yeah??? Pepperoni pizza!! 1
fabulousgal Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 Perhaps she thought "Well no" was enough. But I do think she should have asked for the texts to stop as she does have a bf. But to the above point, trying to be right or wrong won't help...just tell her how you want to be treated.
jolie_baby Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 She shouldn't allow this kind of texts anymore... I wouldn't... I mean, it is not appropriate that she (1) allowed him to think -even with the first text only- that she may have been up to it, and (2) that she is with someone.... how old is she?
mammasita Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 No bueno. She should have nipped that whole exchange in the bud saying she was seeing someone OR just not responded at all.
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