pcplod Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 This is a spin off from the thread titled "They only want sex". What can a woman do to increase her chances of being taken seriously? I know far too many "decent" women seeking relationships with a lot to offer. But often, the men relegate thier relations with these women to nothing more than a friends with benefit situation. Im aware that "falling for someone" has little to do with tricks or games. But is there anything a woman can do to increase her chances of being taken seriously? For example refraining from engaging in sex too early? Hold back emotionally until he indicates serious intentions? Subtly let him know your desires? Dress decently or conservatively? I know a lot of men oppose this but if you meet a man who gets a lot of easy sex by virtue of his charisma, good looks, wealth etc, I would not recommend that a woman who is interested in something serious, jumps right into sex with him. Anyway ild love to hear from both men and women. Thanks. Look out for the guys who genuinely feel guilty about exploiting other people, never mind women. Sorry, but we don't carry flags. You might just have to ask, in a circumlocutory fashion, so that you don't give the game way. Before anyone else suggests it, I don't regard that as deceptive, just careful about how you go about gathering facts.
Treasa Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 Look out for the guys who genuinely feel guilty about exploiting other people, never mind women. Sorry, but we don't carry flags. You might just have to ask, in a circumlocutory fashion, so that you don't give the game way. Before anyone else suggests it, I don't regard that as deceptive, just careful about how you go about gathering facts. Are you suggesting I stop telling men that I'm sure they're decent people, but if I find out otherwise, I'm going to tie them up naked to a post and surround them with hungry and angry badgers?
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