magyarlany79 Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 I have been hanging out with this really nice guy for the past few weeks and I am not sure if he wants a relationship from me. I met him online..he is 30 and I am 24. We have alot in common and want the same things. I have never met anyone that I relate to as much as him and we talk on the phone for hours when he calls me. But I am not sure if he is interested in dating me or anything beyond friends. We see each other at least once a week if not more. I have been to his house and he has even shown me where he works. I just dont know where this is going since we have been out a few times and he just hugs me which is nice but i dont know why he wont kiss me. And we went out to dinner recently and i asked him if he wanted me to pay for some of it and he said no. He said lets just say this is a date and i am not sure what that means. But if we are friends i dont feel he should pay for everything. I just dont get how we can have soo many similarities and want the same things and just be friends. I think he and I both have been thru alot of bad relationships and deserve to be happy. I dont know if i should let him know that I want to pursue more or be just friends. He tells me things like no girl likes him and that he wants a relationship soon so i don tknow if he is hinting or if he is just saying these things to make conversation. I have also gave him no indication that i want to be anything more then friends since i have a low self esteem. Could it be possible that he isnt sure how i feel? If anyone can give me advice I would appreciate it.
bluechocolate Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 He said lets just say this is a date and i am not sure what that means. I would say that it means you were on a date. What you didn't say in your post is what YOU want. If you don't know, why should he? He tells me things like no girl likes him and that he wants a relationship soon Sounds like the perfect opening line for you to say "Well I like you." He's taking you out on dates & dropping hints & you're still not sure. I have also gave him no indication that i want to be anything more then friends What exactly do you expect him to think then?
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