I'm struggling so much with NC, just want to talk to him.

[lemonadekiwi]

I'm on day 12 no contact, deleted him off FB and have avoided any social situations with mutual friends. He dumped me.

The last message he sent me was 10 days ago saying he was sorry for how things went but made no inclination whatsoever he wanted to get back with me.

 

I'm missing him so much, I just want to talk to him and for him to realise he's made a mistake. I'm thinking of texting him asking how he is.

 

Is this bad? My head says no but my heart says otherwise.

 

I'm in so much pain and i feel so pathetic. What happened to me being an independent woman that doesn't need a man? But I just want him. How can I stop this? I try to keep busy and all I want to do is cry and my chest is so tight

 

I thought he was the real thing. I really believed he did, I thought I was lucky.

 

Help I'm feeling so weak

[TaraMaiden]

Listen to your head.

 

Your heart is in no fit state to make any decisions at all.

 

This is why your body aches, but your head's just wuzzy.

[forgetmenot75]

Hi Lemona,

 

I'm sorry you are hurting. Don't text him.

 

He doesn't care how are you doing. Otherwise, he would have texted you before. Don't contact him. He doesn't want to be with you the same way you want him. He's been pretty clear with you.

 

WAIT. And STAY NO CONTACT. you'll feel better.

[crazy1234]

I'm on day 12 no contact, deleted him off FB and have avoided any social situations with mutual friends. He dumped me.

The last message he sent me was 10 days ago saying he was sorry for how things went but made no inclination whatsoever he wanted to get back with me.

 

I'm missing him so much, I just want to talk to him and for him to realise he's made a mistake. I'm thinking of texting him asking how he is.

 

Is this bad? My head says no but my heart says otherwise.

 

I'm in so much pain and i feel so pathetic. What happened to me being an independent woman that doesn't need a man? But I just want him. How can I stop this? I try to keep busy and all I want to do is cry and my chest is so tight

 

I thought he was the real thing. I really believed he did, I thought I was lucky.

 

Help I'm feeling so weak

just hang in there lemonadekiwi..'out of sight out of mind' its really true..think about it..if he does'nt want you or need you..how can u make that person want u or need you?i have gone through this phase..and its hard..i know..bt calling him wont make anything better for you..u'll only sink deeper and deeper..it only makes u feel needy and clingy..but please..tell yourself that you'r not gonna call him any more..u just have to understand that he doesnt want you..and once u do..no matter how much it hurts..be adament that u wont call him.