bball2079 Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 I just don't now why i even try! I mean i get a bunch of compliments about how i'm such a nice guy and all. I don't find my self unattractive or anything i asked on here even and they said i looked fine just need to build confidence. I mean i am a loving, caring, nice, i listen to people, and i never really am a mean person. I mean one of my friends even described me as the definition of a gentleman. But it always works out to where i get my heart broken because she doesn't like me in that way or she has a boy friend. Even if she has a boy friend she wouldn't even consider me as a possible boy friend in the future. I just don't now what to do any more. I give up. I swear i'm at the point of wishing there was some way of removing my damn heart from my body so i wouldn't be able to love or like another girl again. Its just not worth all the trouble you have to go through. Every time I do try not to get involved or like a girl my damn heart just gets the better of me and i end up feeling crap and like i just went through hell. I just don't now what to do anymore?!?! I give up?!?!
lil old me Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 First of all, you look like you're a little too young to be giving up. Secondly, love usually finds you when you're not looking for it. Women, at least the smart ones, like it when a guy behaves like a gentleman. Unfortunately, sometimes we confuse that behavior with being needy or too clingy. Obviously, I don't know you personally, so I don't know if you are either of those things. My advice would be to not come on too strong, too fast. That is a major mistake that both genders sometimes make. Hang in there, love will come find you.
Maria46 Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Don't give up!!! Maybe you are trying to hard. Just take a girl out and have a good time. Don't expect anything more. If you think you may be interested in going out again, give her a call in a few days, but not the next day. Don't act desperate!!! It will all work out for you. You are young and have many years to find out who you are and what you desire out of your life!! Good luck!! and keep smiling!!
kellydontwanttasleep Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 if you don't work out then i would do some martial arts if i were you. it will build self worth, and a set of balls which in all the confusion of your life you might have misplaced
johan Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Kelly, if he can't find his balls, will you loan him some of your extras?
Author bball2079 Posted September 30, 2004 Author Posted September 30, 2004 lol yes i can find my balls thank you very much and i don't want another pair of them. Every time i do ask them out they always have some excuse. I do think that I did rush into the last one so my mistake there was not to rush just take my time. But i still do wish that i could get my heart removed just for a few yrs its just causing me to many problems that i just don't want right now.
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