beelibra Posted May 20, 2013 Share Posted May 20, 2013 Hey everyone! New to the forum but have been crusinnn around a while! okay so here's the deal! I met this amazing guy online about a month and a half ago, I'm in California and he's in Arizona, so it's not too bad. What's funny is he grew up his whole life the same city that I'm in, and moved away the same time that I moved here. Everything we've gone through is so similar, and it all just seems amazing down to the core. We both have kids and went through the same heart break with our child's parent, and we are at the same place in our lives. Anyways, he's coming down to pick up his son in 11 days and staying over the weekend. Not at my place, just in the city with friends and family and such. Although he is staying the night Sunday, but we will be meeting and hanging out throughout the weekend. Both him and I never thought we'd be in this kind of long distance situation, but we've got some deep feelings for each other and are so happy having one another there for each other. I'm so scared to meet him though! I feel like he has high expectations and I really don't want to let him down. He's really handsome, and I do modeling which kind of makes me be in a more insecure situation. I worry that he won't like the way I look as much in person, I do have flaws (stretch marks my biggest thing im freakin about) and I feel like he doesn't think that I do and I really just feel like disappointment is around the corner. Don't get me wrong I'm confident, but I really really like this guy and I've never done this sort of thing. I don't know what to think, & the last thing I want to do is shut out And ruin this experience. Hes staying the night Sunday and I'm making him dinner, so it will be a very intimate night and I just hope it goes well. Does anyone have any tips, or experiences you like to share with me? It would be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much :-) Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted May 20, 2013 Share Posted May 20, 2013 Is he supposed to see your stretch marks on a first date? How? Anyway, I would tell him right away that I have stretch marks, so that it doesn't get in the way. But then, be prepared, some men can be weird and then he might insist he'd like to see your stretch marks (to get to love them)... Link to post Share on other sites
umirano Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Is he as fixated on looks as you? Maybe he likes you for other things than your looks. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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