Lovels Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 Two and a half months after dumping me, I found out that my ex was back on the dating website. That is how we met. Although I'm slowly getting over her, it hurts because this is around the time we started talking. It's been over 2 weeks since I initiated NC and this makes me want to break it. I don't know what to do.
aisuru Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 Two and a half months!? THAT's great! Your ex took some time to realign themselves. I got on less than a month after my BU. Though admittedly I deactivated it a week later. I reactivated it about 6 weeks post BU. How long do you expect your ex to pine for you? Everybody move on, just at different speeds.
creighton0123 Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 Just block him on the dating website and move on. It'll be easier for both of you in the long run. Two and a half months post-BU is usually a good amount of time to start casually dating again.
mbee Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I know it's tough but avoid looking at his profile. Trust me 2 and a half months is a good amount of time. My ex jumped into a relationship and after the cheating, lies and physical abuse, I jumped on a website a couple of weeks afterward as well. Are you ready for dating yet? This could be an opportunity for you to try to meet other people, even as friends. Clearly not through the same dating website but something for you to consider.
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