GB25 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 So she never called you back when she went out of town or even texted you and you sent one more and now she agreed to another date friday?? Thats confusing..dating these days is such a crap shoot.
Author SaintNick Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 This is why calling is better than texting. NO, I actually texted her and asked, she never returned my call from Sunday!
Author SaintNick Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 So she never called you back when she went out of town or even texted you and you sent one more and now she agreed to another date friday?? Thats confusing..dating these days is such a crap shoot. I agree, I honestly don't know whether I should be excited or not because I can't tell if she is actually interested in me or simply being nice. What are ya'lls thoughts?
othersideofthepillow Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 So I'm assuming that she KNOWS it's a date on friday right? She said yes so be happy! She could just as easily never responded to your text and blown you off completely. Some people like texting more than talking. Doesn't mean they don't appreciate being called, they just may not like talking on the phone and find texting more convenient. When you go out with her this Friday just be fun and outgoing and I'm sure everything will go great! No need to lay it all out there on the second date either so just be yourself and enjoy her company! Make sure you contact her within the next few days though (something light and casual) so that when Friday comes you will already have a little rap or going. Good luck!
Author SaintNick Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 So I'm assuming that she KNOWS it's a date on friday right? She said yes so be happy! She could just as easily never responded to your text and blown you off completely. Some people like texting more than talking. Doesn't mean they don't appreciate being called, they just may not like talking on the phone and find texting more convenient. When you go out with her this Friday just be fun and outgoing and I'm sure everything will go great! No need to lay it all out there on the second date either so just be yourself and enjoy her company! Make sure you contact her within the next few days though (something light and casual) so that when Friday comes you will already have a little rap or going. Good luck! LOL I mean I would assume she knows this is a date! We did meet on a dating site, so hopefully she does.
Author SaintNick Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 I guess my concern now is that she ONLY said yes to be nice! I just can't read this girl at all!
Author SaintNick Posted May 26, 2013 Author Posted May 26, 2013 Ok ladies, I need your advice again! I took this girl out on another date last night. I picked her up at her apartment and took her to a nice dinner and then we went and played mini golf for a couple of hours. She seemed to really be enjoying herself and we laughed, and I teased her and touched her a little bit throughout the night. I had to take her home kind of earlyish because she had to be up for early this morning. So when we got to her apartment I walked her to her door and we hugged and after we pulled away i had my hands on her hips still. I dont know why I did this (might have scared her off actually), but I asked her if I could kiss her. She said yes, and we kissed for a few seconds. Now my question is, I texted her today thanking her for coming out with me and told her i had a great time. I also teased her a little bit in that text about beating me in mini golf. However, I texted her this morning and still have not gotten a response from her. After our first meeting a couple of weeks ago she responded rather quickly after I thanked her, but not after this date. Is it possible that she has lost interest or what? Also, should I continue to pursue or just let her go? I guess her allowing me to kiss her would be a good sign, maybe not?
fabulousgal Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Sounds like it went well. I think you may jump the gun from anxiety with this girl. Relax and have fun, and date more than one girl online! It will keep you from overthinking things with one. Then hopefully one will evolve into something more (assuming it is what you want).
GB25 Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Dude you are gonna get an ulcer from all this worrying over nothing. You went out had a nice time had a nice kiss at the end and thats that..why all the what if's and worry??? You havta slow down and stop over analyzing every little thing. She put salt on her food does that mean shes not interested??? She used the restroom at 9:41 then again at 9:58 does that mean I should stop pursuing her??? Slowww down boss..you got her. She likes you..my only advice would be chill out with the texting and worrying.. 2
Author SaintNick Posted May 26, 2013 Author Posted May 26, 2013 GB you're right, I need to relax and I will. I'm confused by her lack of communication. Plus, I suck at dating and always overanalyze things with girls, It's something I'm working on.
drr6 Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 You must definitely chill. I am new here and don't mean to be a jerk.... but:D over-eagerness quickly comes across as desperation. A particularly bad look for a man. 1
Author SaintNick Posted May 26, 2013 Author Posted May 26, 2013 Drr6 you're also right, however, I NEVER text or call her. Its not like I blow up her phone constantly, I don't. I'll just calm myself down, stop worrying, and go with the flow from now on. 2
Author SaintNick Posted May 28, 2013 Author Posted May 28, 2013 Ok everybody I just wanted to keep you abreast of everything going on. The "GUT" feeling I have had all along has become reality. The girl that I have referred to in this thread FINALLY text me back today (after our second date ) and said that, "I seemed like a great guy, but I am not the guy for her!" You win some and you lose some in the game of dating I suppose, but it still sucks. I somehow had feelings for this girl after 2 meetings, but hey I am stronger and smarter due to this. Did I make mistakes on our first date, probably!! Have I learned from them, absolutely! But what I have learned moreso than anything else is be yourself, act naturally, and trust your gut, it never leads astray!
BluEyeL Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I'm sorry It's good that she actually told you straight and didn't let you continue to worry. 1
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