1908 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Had another very vivid dream about my ex last night. Didn't help that I spent a good portion of the day thinking about her. Guess that's what happens when you're bored and home alone on a Saturday night. I got invited to a party too and I turned it down for some reason though I was pretty tired as I had a busy week. Making the rest of this weekend a bit tough on the old psyche however. Haven't had contact with her for nearly a week now. We haven't gone more than a week without some form of contact so this will probably get worse before it gets better as we both made it quite clear to each other earlier in the week that we don't want to hear from each other. Not anytime soon anyways. But at the same time, I haven't felt very compelled to get in touch with her so I feel kinda good about that (:
David-H Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I got invited to a party too and I turned it down for some reason though I was pretty tired as I had a busy week (: At this point dude just say yes to everything. Have you seen the film 'yes man'? You need to imply this to your life right now, get out see and do every opportunity that comes your way. It'll help take your mind off things and maybe help open up the next chapter of your life. On the dreams thing, ignore the s**t out of them. It is a consequence of thinking about the same thing all day, no meaning, no sign, just your brain carrying on from the day. I do a lot of editing and when I am stuck in an edit suite 14 hours of the day staring at a screen I always fall asleep and dream of cutting the s**t out of stuff, it's just natural and normal. You will stop as you think of it less. In the meantime don't give it any thought, meaning or attention as it deserves none.
todreaminblue Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 Had another very vivid dream about my ex last night. Didn't help that I spent a good portion of the day thinking about her. Guess that's what happens when you're bored and home alone on a Saturday night. I got invited to a party too and I turned it down for some reason though I was pretty tired as I had a busy week. Making the rest of this weekend a bit tough on the old psyche however. Haven't had contact with her for nearly a week now. We haven't gone more than a week without some form of contact so this will probably get worse before it gets better as we both made it quite clear to each other earlier in the week that we don't want to hear from each other. Not anytime soon anyways. But at the same time, I haven't felt very compelled to get in touch with her so I feel kinda good about that (: dream analysers say that dreaming about your ex is a form of closure.......something unwritten and left unsaid that you didnt deal with ...so it comes in a form of closure in your dreams......deb
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